The man you are having a crush on is charismatic and gregarious.
He has no problem in making friends; yet on the other side, he is quite demanding and moody. With a huge love for challenge and freedom, you will never find him stay too long in one place or do routine.
No matter how long and how well you know him, it’s hard to read his mind.
Sometimes he may confuse you and it’s because of his dual personality.
He probably gets hurt if people misunderstand him as a double-faced person.
If you are interested in a Gemini man and want to make him chase you, then you must know what type of woman he finds most attractive.
What does Gemini man like in a woman?
Maybe the following tips can help you discover the answer!
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6 Things Gemini Man Likes Most in a Woman
1. Her charm & social mood
He is the spirit of all the parties, so there’s no surprising at all if you see him blending in well with all the crowds wherever he goes. No matter what is going on with his surroundings, your Gemini man can adapt with any situation.
That explains he has a common interest in woman who looks attractive and is social with him. This guy prefers a sexy lady with class, not just wearing clothes showing a lot of skin.
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2. Her exciting personality
How to tell if a Gemini man is interested in you?
He is the person that can’t stop looking for endless excitement in his life. In fact, what he scares most is that boredom will hit him at certain times so he always digs in new things to make sure it never happens.
If he has a girlfriend with full of exciting ideas, then his life will be much colorful.
This guy craves to explore fun things, and it would be awesome if he can share his desire with the woman he loves. Whenever he comes up with incredible ideas, stay open to them and don’t forget to offer something exhilarating.
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3. Her respect for his freedom
Gemini man not interested in clingy women at all!
Most importantly, freedom is all to him, more than anything else. If you want to stay with him for a long term, then don’t mess up with his freedom. Whenever he tells you about his future plans, just listen attentively and show your sincere support.
He finds the woman who is independent and can handle her life is super attractive because he is also the person very certain about himself.
Respect his privacy and he will encourage you to pursue your dream 100% in return, even if your dreams were not practical.
Being happy on your own and he will find himself miss you crazy!
4. Her intelligence
Remember that you cannot win his heart with just your drop dead gorgeous looks.
He is not the type of person that gets attracted to the beauty easily. Before he starts his chase, he needs to be stimulated mentally firstly.
Don’t focus on seducing him physically only!
The Gemini male always expects to have an intellectual woman who enables to win his admiration by his side.
5. Her energy
Undoubtedly, this man is an outgoing person.
He enjoys doing all activities, from partying, new projects at work, and outdoor sports to any thing that can keep him busy. He finds it difficult to stay still. Sitting all night on the couch with a bowl full of butter popcorn to watching TV is probably not his thing.
When he is in love with someone, he prefers doing something fun with that person, such as climbing mountains, sailing on weekends, etc.
So, what kind of woman can attract a Gemini man?
He likes to be with a gal who loves experiencing everything with him or at least doesn’t feel mind with what he is doing.
6. Her passion for life
Your Gemini is very passionate about life; thus, he expects to find a partner who also shares the same passion. Together you two will discover about where life can possibly go. Show him your optimism as that’s all he needs from a woman.
Feel free to share your thought about this wonderful life to him, and he will get curious to know about your thrilling plans in the future as well. Be open to him all the things you you’re fascinated or passionate about.
Wrap up
So what does a Gemini man like in a woman?
Being with this guy, you need to upgrade yourself like every single day.
He is very intelligent, so you must widen your knowledge in order to keep up with his intellectual conservation. Besides, display your bright and happy personality because he doesn’t want toxic people in his life.
For more information, don’t mind leaving your questions below!
Okay so I’m really confused about this one. My best friend is a gemini guy and I’m a libra. After we finished school we’ve been hanging out alot more and getting closer than usual. He has a girlfriend and things got abit out of control a few times with us. He cares uncontrollably about me, sends me sweet messages from time to time, when I go missing for hours or days he’ll call up and says he misses me also these days he wants to see me alot(sometimes I feel he uses meeting up to have sex as an excuse to see me) etc(this only started happening after that last major fight they had) . I also noticed like a month back they fought and he didn’t want to talk about it to me, usually he does. After that fight he hasn’t brought her up and stuff like that. When we together his hardly ever on his phone. By the way she stays in another province from him but shes formally from here, she moved up because of some issues at home. He tells me everything and once he even told me, when they fought, he had to call me up because I lighten up his mood???? I’m so lost. I don’t know whether his falling for me because after this 2 months of hanging out his attitude is different, like he never used to message me as much only when he wanted things to get frisky and he never used to miss me and stuff. Now it’s like a whole new person. We best friends but also agreed to be friends with benefits after a while, at the beginning he told me not to fall for him but now I think it’s the other way around.
Some help on this guy’s??
Hi Katherine,
You should accept that he sees you only as a friend, and that this will most probably not change. If he thought otherwise he would not be with his girlfriend. You should try to spend some time away from him, and meet new people. Hope is your worst enemy in this scenario. If you can’t control your emotions, you may need to consider stopping the friendship, at least for some time.
You will not change how he sees you, you can only try to change how you can feel. And that starts with giving yourself some space.
Sincere
how would a aries woman and gemini male be in a relationship?
Hi Kelly,
When Aries and Gemini come together in a love affair, they connect on a physical as well as an intellectual level. These two Signs love activity and stay optimistic even in the most trying of times. Signs that are two apart in the Zodiac usually enjoy excellent communication and a deep understanding of one another. Aries’s independent, pioneering spirit is attractive to Gemini, who also values independence. If Gemini feels that Aries is being too controlling or if Aries takes Gemini’s flirtatious nature too seriously, arguments may set the tone of the relationship. They create a good balance together: Aries wants to experience things and Gemini wants to discuss them. Together they can make all kinds of new discoveries that they might have missed alone.
Their ability to work together as a single unit.
Sincere
I am a double gemini male and i can assure you that we are dominant males and demanding ..the bitter truth is that we do not like weak women since we do not like it to be dominant , we want to be nice …
That is the difference between scorpio men , taurus men , saggitarius men , capricorn men … almost all men is see want to be dominant but simply are not .
A gemini male wants to be friendly end gentle… but our core is moody , dark , demanding and controling .
If a woman is nit in need for a dominant man , then skip a gemini .
For me , as well as my father who is a doubkle gemini too , amd my good sports friend who is a gemini also.. we like silent but strong women .
A women who does not need us to have a life .
Let say a capricorn for example .
The three of us wel all like silent strong women and a smart one , ond who knows stuff in life and even in the books.
At sex , i cannot speak for my father on this ( laughing ) but me as we as my friend kuke women who are again silent but strong ..
No pleasers , no femdom women either..
Just strong sensual and silent women ..
Who are nit afraid for trying out new stuff ..
Sex can be rough as hell and the next day it can be like “ the bleu lagoon “
In short :
Steady , silent independant , and strong women yet able to admit the need for a dominant man.
I can get no other better description as we speak .
You may like my words , you may not like it but it is the truth.
Take care
Hello, can a virgo woman be happy with a Gemini man?
Hi MR,
Virgo is an introverted homebody & Gemini is an extroverted thrill seeker
Virgo wants the best for everyone & Gemini wants the best for their own mental stimulation
Virgo is slow fine-detail oriented & Gemini is a speedy analytic
However, opposites attract. Gemini breaks down Virgo’s harsh walls of resistance to the unknown. And Virgo empowers Gemini with the gift of thinking things through before acting.
They are complimentary signs in my opinion, like yin and yang, but there’s unending time and effort that needs to be put into loving someone so dramatically different from yourself. This relationship isn’t for the fragile, but if you both compromise and rid yourself of all preconceived expectations of what a relationship “should” be, then there’s a love that’s almost too good it should be forbidden to be found here. Gemini feels perfection in Virgo’s touch and feels secure and safe by it, Virgo feels childlike love in Gemini’s passion and energy and is made more positive minded and flexible to change by it.
Virgo, allow your Gemini the freedom to make their own mistakes, even if it hurts you to watch. Gemini learns best through hardships and is happiest chasing their curiosity, even if it hurts them in the end. Also Virgo, try not to be so hard on your Gemini when they make mistakes. If Gemini messes up, they hate to feel like a bad person for their choices, even if they are in the wrong (it’s confusing and I still don’t understand it myself lol) when Gemini has low self confidence it’s all downhill from there.
Gemini, my biggest advice is to *watch your tongue* and give your delicate Virgo space and time to process their feelings, they operate at slower pace than you do and feel things for longer duration. Mindless words can get you into a lot of trouble here. Also Gemini, it wouldn’t hurt to admit to the actions you caused to make Virgo feel hurt or insecure, their feelings should be valued equally to your own, even if you don’t necessarily agree with their emotional responses.
Sincere
Hi Me I’m Gemeni man who has been and still in relationship with Virgo but after many years, things have cropped which was there early in beginning but happened only after we in relationship.
So from my personal experience as a Gemeni Man who knows Virgo’s.
The problem isn’ Gemeni man but that Virgo’s want perfection, are traditional old fashioned regarding love and that means a lot of jealousy, lots of neediness for attention, clingyness. Virgo women have this expectation to have all the attention a lot of the times from Gemeni, and because of their own psychological script where they are judgmental, over anaylsing, over thinking and got to be busy, busy or they go crazy with drama, they will push Gemeni men away.
Gemeni cannot make you happy. That’s your jobe. It’s not the responsibility of someone to complete your life, for you to be centre of someone’s life and to then be possessive, jealous of Gemeni because we are very good at conencting with people, attract a lot of people, and that’s also attracting very attractive women.
Virgos are great as friends but they hide their trueself. Alone they are whiny, complaining about others, jealousy erupts when other women show interest in Gemeni man and creates suspicion and mind games which in the end is very toxic for Gemeni men.
Virgo is very emotional though rational, but they expect Gemeni men to be emotional, i.e. cry in front of them, show emotion all time, or sometimes and got to be romantic and giving attention always because Virgo women becomes insecure, needs his attention a lot or she feels left out because he’s got a big life, a big social life, and even when a Gemeni hasn’t and is an introvert, she still will create choas, drama, over and over and over again.
So can Virgo women be happy with Gemeni man?
No because he’s role and job is not to make you happy. You should be happy anyway and be very independant, that you don’t need him to fill the void in your life but to believe in yourself.
If Virgo women can stop this jelousy and need for attention, craving for attention so much from a Gemeni man and stop being old fashioned, when they know many Gemeni’s are non-mongamous, not into traditional norm stuff, then it be fine.
But unfortunately many Virgo women are old fashioned, princess types, jealous types and over thinking too much. When they got nothing going on in their life they expect Gemeni man to fill that void, and suddenly they start creating drama.
Make yourself happy first, be independant, and it would help if you’re non-mongamous and not jealous type, who needs so much attention or craves for it.
Gemeni’s love their emotional and mental freedom, which is where problem will also arise with Virgo women.
I think you’re very wrong of a Virgo woman. Yes, we are traditional in our idea of love and romance, but we are far from being clingy and jealous. Personally, I’m an ambivert by nature. I enjoy fun events. I was even the social secretary back in University. Even if I haven’t dated a Gemini before, I believe if you truly love someone, you won’t disrespect them nor make them feel unappreciated because you claim to be non-monogamous. We are the most independent zodiac sign ever and clingy is far from Virgo. All we seek is a grounded man who’s clear on what he wants.
Should you confess to your Gemini friend / lover that you love them or no? or wait for them to make the first move in wanting a relationship?
Known him 12 years going on 13
been sexual the past 3 years , he came to me while I was still married , he finally admitted he wanted me and after seperation we become closer but kept it as friends with benefits . Have noticed though he gets jealous with certain things and always asking me questions if i’ve been with others yes or no. I haven’t as reassured him it’s only been him. Iv kept my distance in the emotions part. He does know i want something as did ask him last year to make it more than what we are. He stated that he was only after being friends . I feel there is more and he is holding back a lot . We know about each others lives we are close and always says he never wants to lose me etc . Even my friends feel that his scared to open up to me he knows i’m always there for him and likes the reassurance i give him. We have fought a few times and most times he does come back asking if i hate him or not etc It’s been hard. Lately we had a little rough patch and i don’t want to push him so i’m holding back the messages etc
I’m a virgo and him being gemini some people say not a good match but everyone around us says that they see us together and would match but his holding back a lot . Arggg any help or advice really
Thank you
Hi dear,
I’d be very careful with this because you do not want Gemini to see you as a platonic friend and that can be very awkward.
You need to be flirty with Gemini not bantering the way you are. You need to arouse the Gemini by stimulating his/her mind that makes the person feel aroused, feels attraction with you and feels a more sexual and romantic attraction. Moment you take long and behave like a friend, it’s going to be very difficult for Gemini to see you as anything else.
It’s best you be direct and just say it and don’t take too long. Geminis think fast, move fast and if someone is moving slow, it means to them that person is unsure, that person isn’t confident in their feelings and more than likely hold them back because they are adventureous even in relationship.
There’s no secret.
Just say it. Be direct.
The only reason it won’t work with the Gemeni is because
1. You’re jealous type
2. You’re monogamous and know he isn’t but think love will save the day and try mind games to fix and get him attached to you which will backfire later on you.
3. You’re clingy, want attention so much and don’t understand Gemeni needs their space, mental and emotional space and you don’t maybe understand clearly what this means.
4. You’re old fashioned, into norms, slow with dating, slow in showing you’re attracted to him.
5. Creates drama and suspicioun from your side arises often later on because other women give him attention or he’s busy with his lifestyle and likes his freedom and space.
But if you’re not any of these, then it will work, however, I have yet found virgo woman who isn’t doing the above or is of the above I have mentioned. On you know yourself.
On how to approach Gemeni man..
1. Be direct. Avoid behaving like some friend, being platonic, and hesitant in showing your attraction to him.
2. Make sure you keep that up not just in dating but also in relationship.
3. Don’t try to change him and complain he doesn’t show emotion. He’s strong, he handles his emotions. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t show emotions because he has none. It means he is maturer than most people, he is not drama and negative driven. Though negativity is normal in our lives it is not a successful way to build relationship and is toxic.
4. When using texting or emails, or on phone, be flirty, be fun, upbeat. Do away with drama, negativity and stay up beat.
5. He maybe non-monogamous. It’s not that he maybe afraid of comittment. Gemeni committment is different to anyone who is monogamous. They are very loyal when they find a lover, very but they want their freedom to meet other people, date and even have sex with other people too.
6. They are very busy, love their work and their work and purpose in life comes first. You need to be very independant, so much so, you do not want a man to complete your life but a lover who is a friend too but he must be a lover first, so make sure you behave like one, and not as a friend first.
If this is too much for you and you, then maybe it’s best to move on.
Now if that’s not for you and you think it’s too much work and exhuasting, then you’re not compatible.