The man you are having a crush on is charismatic and gregarious.
He has no problem in making friends; yet on the other side, he is quite demanding and moody. With a huge love for challenge and freedom, you will never find him stay too long in one place or do routine.
No matter how long and how well you know him, it’s hard to read his mind.
Sometimes he may confuse you and it’s because of his dual personality.
He probably gets hurt if people misunderstand him as a double-faced person.
If you are interested in a Gemini man and want to make him chase you, then you must know what type of woman he finds most attractive.
What does Gemini man like in a woman?
Maybe the following tips can help you discover the answer!
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6 Things Gemini Man Likes Most in a Woman

1. Her charm & social mood
He is the spirit of all the parties, so there’s no surprising at all if you see him blending in well with all the crowds wherever he goes. No matter what is going on with his surroundings, your Gemini man can adapt with any situation.
That explains he has a common interest in woman who looks attractive and is social with him. This guy prefers a sexy lady with class, not just wearing clothes showing a lot of skin.
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2. Her exciting personality
How to tell if a Gemini man is interested in you?
He is the person that can’t stop looking for endless excitement in his life. In fact, what he scares most is that boredom will hit him at certain times so he always digs in new things to make sure it never happens.
If he has a girlfriend with full of exciting ideas, then his life will be much colorful.
This guy craves to explore fun things, and it would be awesome if he can share his desire with the woman he loves. Whenever he comes up with incredible ideas, stay open to them and don’t forget to offer something exhilarating.
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3. Her respect for his freedom
Gemini man not interested in clingy women at all!
Most importantly, freedom is all to him, more than anything else. If you want to stay with him for a long term, then don’t mess up with his freedom. Whenever he tells you about his future plans, just listen attentively and show your sincere support.
He finds the woman who is independent and can handle her life is super attractive because he is also the person very certain about himself.
Respect his privacy and he will encourage you to pursue your dream 100% in return, even if your dreams were not practical.
Being happy on your own and he will find himself miss you crazy!
4. Her intelligence
Remember that you cannot win his heart with just your drop dead gorgeous looks.
He is not the type of person that gets attracted to the beauty easily. Before he starts his chase, he needs to be stimulated mentally firstly.
Don’t focus on seducing him physically only!
The Gemini male always expects to have an intellectual woman who enables to win his admiration by his side.
5. Her energy
Undoubtedly, this man is an outgoing person.
He enjoys doing all activities, from partying, new projects at work, and outdoor sports to any thing that can keep him busy. He finds it difficult to stay still. Sitting all night on the couch with a bowl full of butter popcorn to watching TV is probably not his thing.
When he is in love with someone, he prefers doing something fun with that person, such as climbing mountains, sailing on weekends, etc.
So, what kind of woman can attract a Gemini man?
He likes to be with a gal who loves experiencing everything with him or at least doesn’t feel mind with what he is doing.
6. Her passion for life
Your Gemini is very passionate about life; thus, he expects to find a partner who also shares the same passion. Together you two will discover about where life can possibly go. Show him your optimism as that’s all he needs from a woman.
Feel free to share your thought about this wonderful life to him, and he will get curious to know about your thrilling plans in the future as well. Be open to him all the things you you’re fascinated or passionate about.
Wrap up
So what does a Gemini man like in a woman?
Being with this guy, you need to upgrade yourself like every single day.
He is very intelligent, so you must widen your knowledge in order to keep up with his intellectual conservation. Besides, display your bright and happy personality because he doesn’t want toxic people in his life.
For more information, don’t mind leaving your questions below!
I am a female and I am an Aries. My gemini man is not very talkative. He is very attracted to me. We met on FB, but we haven’t met in person yet. But he is saying he loves me already. It is has only been about 2 or 3 weeks. He feels very sexual towards me. He has mention moving and getting married. But he does not talk a lot. He has asked me if I would be his woman and he has over and over claim me as his. But I have mention we need to meet 1st and see how it goes. He is a police officer. What do I do?
Hi dear,
Right now it’s ‘not love’. You are in love with “an image” of him that he chooses to show you over chats or text messages. The day you meet him is the day you get to know about him as a person in real-life, and then you will get to know how he actually is, how he behaves, how he talks, how he is in nature, and all the things that matter in long-term. So do not conclude from a few chats that you are in love with him or anything. It takes a significant amount of time to fall in love with someone in truest sense!
Love is when you can ‘die’ for someone and not even think about it twice! Anything less than that isn’t love but just attraction and unfortunately many people name the cheap-attraction as ‘love’!
Good luck! :)
What about a gemini guy and a libra lady like me
Hi dear,
Well they are the ones who actually make the best couple as good as magical. Of course other things needs to be considered like moon sign and rising sign etc but on a broader picture they are both very much similar to each other and make very harmonious pair. They both are air signs, they both love socializing a lot, they both are ultimate chatter box, they both are mentally stimulating people and they both are very cerebral. Libra although is a bit diplomatic and Geminis pretty straight forward most of the time but then they go along so well together that it comes down to enjoying simple things together like watching movies plays doing adventure sports ot just idle book reading with a cup of coffee! Gemini brings out the childlike innocence from Libra and Libras gives them secure heaven to stop at and build life around it. There planets are natural allies mercury and Venus planet of love are very compatible and hence they are born to be together and enjoy each others company intimately, mentally, emotionally and from great friendship to life long buddies!
Sincere
I am a Cancer girl and i have a huge crush on a gemini guy but i don’t know how to confess, because he’s kinda studious and has no interest in these love affairs! But i like him very very much… Please help.
Hi Veronica,
I cannot see any reason as to why you should not. If you really love the guy you should definitely go ahead and confess to the guy. There is a lot of anxiety and fear about the if’s, but let me tell you this, you surely don’t wanna look back someday with regret thinking you should have confessed and what the both of you could have been.
Sincere
Can you explain alittle more? I am a virgo woman with a gemini moon! I really like this guy & I really want to get to know him more. But i dont want to over step & make him feel like im being pushy?
Hi Chloe,
The truth is, you don’t know what’s going on in his head. Gemni man likes someone who is confident in herself and secure with the life she has. Don’t make him your focus as it may just annoy him. Live your life and your passions and let him be a part of it naturally, and slowly he will want to know you more.
Sincere.
Hi I am Gemini guy, I love a Pisces woman,
So I was gived a love praposal to her in early 3 Year, but we were not known well to each other, she did not reply either yes or no but her relative and other official employ calling me and tell to us I should not followed her and it is wrong doings either by phone or in the front of society, but we were doing mistake we did not accept it she rejected my proposal, try convince her in any manner, but she has had away from us, but during early one year she has running around us, she try to give sign indirectly, but she doesn’t approach us in direct way, we want it she has open all of their emotions in the front of us as same we were sharing to her, but she has not to do it… So I have make a huge distance from her, because I do not want to harm my own feelings, values and respect, etc.. I really know that she love us, but she did not respect to all of my feelings, thoughts, desire or needs etc,
Hi dear,
Get some self-respect. That’s the only way to get over a person who doesn’t treat you right. You truly liked her, were true to yourself and her in terms of your feelings, So now don’t linger on to her. If she would have wanted you in her life even as a friend she would have been considerate enough to care for your feelings. But if she is accusing you of not caring, then its time to let go. Get hold of your self. Respect yourself enough to not get abused in this way. Love yourself first then only anyone else will.
Sincere!