The man you are having a crush on is charismatic and gregarious.
He has no problem in making friends; yet on the other side, he is quite demanding and moody. With a huge love for challenge and freedom, you will never find him stay too long in one place or do routine.
No matter how long and how well you know him, it’s hard to read his mind.
Sometimes he may confuse you and it’s because of his dual personality.
He probably gets hurt if people misunderstand him as a double-faced person.
If you are interested in a Gemini man and want to make him chase you, then you must know what type of woman he finds most attractive.
What does Gemini man like in a woman?
Maybe the following tips can help you discover the answer!
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6 Things Gemini Man Likes Most in a Woman
1. Her charm & social mood
He is the spirit of all the parties, so there’s no surprising at all if you see him blending in well with all the crowds wherever he goes. No matter what is going on with his surroundings, your Gemini man can adapt with any situation.
That explains he has a common interest in woman who looks attractive and is social with him. This guy prefers a sexy lady with class, not just wearing clothes showing a lot of skin.
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2. Her exciting personality
How to tell if a Gemini man is interested in you?
He is the person that can’t stop looking for endless excitement in his life. In fact, what he scares most is that boredom will hit him at certain times so he always digs in new things to make sure it never happens.
If he has a girlfriend with full of exciting ideas, then his life will be much colorful.
This guy craves to explore fun things, and it would be awesome if he can share his desire with the woman he loves. Whenever he comes up with incredible ideas, stay open to them and don’t forget to offer something exhilarating.
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3. Her respect for his freedom
Gemini man not interested in clingy women at all!
Most importantly, freedom is all to him, more than anything else. If you want to stay with him for a long term, then don’t mess up with his freedom. Whenever he tells you about his future plans, just listen attentively and show your sincere support.
He finds the woman who is independent and can handle her life is super attractive because he is also the person very certain about himself.
Respect his privacy and he will encourage you to pursue your dream 100% in return, even if your dreams were not practical.
Being happy on your own and he will find himself miss you crazy!
4. Her intelligence
Remember that you cannot win his heart with just your drop dead gorgeous looks.
He is not the type of person that gets attracted to the beauty easily. Before he starts his chase, he needs to be stimulated mentally firstly.
Don’t focus on seducing him physically only!
The Gemini male always expects to have an intellectual woman who enables to win his admiration by his side.
5. Her energy
Undoubtedly, this man is an outgoing person.
He enjoys doing all activities, from partying, new projects at work, and outdoor sports to any thing that can keep him busy. He finds it difficult to stay still. Sitting all night on the couch with a bowl full of butter popcorn to watching TV is probably not his thing.
When he is in love with someone, he prefers doing something fun with that person, such as climbing mountains, sailing on weekends, etc.
So, what kind of woman can attract a Gemini man?
He likes to be with a gal who loves experiencing everything with him or at least doesn’t feel mind with what he is doing.
6. Her passion for life
Your Gemini is very passionate about life; thus, he expects to find a partner who also shares the same passion. Together you two will discover about where life can possibly go. Show him your optimism as that’s all he needs from a woman.
Feel free to share your thought about this wonderful life to him, and he will get curious to know about your thrilling plans in the future as well. Be open to him all the things you you’re fascinated or passionate about.
Wrap up
So what does a Gemini man like in a woman?
Being with this guy, you need to upgrade yourself like every single day.
He is very intelligent, so you must widen your knowledge in order to keep up with his intellectual conservation. Besides, display your bright and happy personality because he doesn’t want toxic people in his life.
For more information, don’t mind leaving your questions below!
i m aries 10 april and have been friends with a gemini or gemini cancer cuspian may be,21 june. he told me he has feelings for me, showers lot of care, talks a lot and shares his future plans. He is very intellectual and he is always there at times of need. But i want to know if this could potentially be a long term relation as marriage. He even hints about marriage n we enjoy teasing each other n i hv already accepted him as a very loyal friend. What can be challenges
Hi Farah,
The overall impression of this couple would be good, exciting and challenging, a relationship where both partners can learn a lot and be active in a healthy way. The main problem with their romantic involvement is the lack of trust, especially if Aries partner gets too attached to Gemini, always fighting for their freedom. The need for conversation with a lot of essence is bigger than any positive or any negative aspects of their relationship and both of them should always have this in mind. In general, there is a big chance these two will end up together, because their shared love of adventure is bigger than most of their troubles.
Sincere
Im.a gemini women in may 22 and my long distance partner is Gemini male in june 4,we are in more than 2 years ldr but it seems these years he shift moods and sometimes he is become flaky and i find oit sometime he kept lies tome about himself and what he has in his life before,actually whwn we start after 2 months he vanish and left me full of questions in my mind qith out saying antyhing or goodbye then after a few months im already move he cameback to me and ask 2nd chance until we reach and pass more 2 yrs ahead,now we never failed on communicaying videocalls but,his actions become different on his words saying tome,and i really fell guts and trust issues on him after i caugh his past gfs that he was hiding tome at first and i discover recwntly he keep contacts with his ex and send a help,whwn i found it and ask him he said imhe hate me and broke me up,but we ended in a good talks and sorry but..after that he is flakiness and moodiness that i cant handle anymore,he makes me feel hurt and taking for granded now even he keeps talking qith me over the videocalls,im really feel.toxic and im getting nagged in his duality person alities and unpredictable moves,what should i do im so brainstorming now so painful i felt,but keep stay and do all my best to understanding him moods
Hi Yam,
This twin sign values their intellect the most, and will use this intellect as a weapon when needed. They can pull out facts to back up their argument, use what you said 2 months ago against you or simply use big words to make you feel dumb. Not only that, but they believe their way is the right way and everyone else’s is something to be ignored. Gemini’s are known to be two faced because they are the ‘twin’ signs, and this can result in changing who they are depending on the crowd they are with.
They are experienced manipulators and will make you feel like you are going crazy. They can’t always be trusted as they will use your own words against you. They are extremely intelligent people but often don’t apply that intellect to good use. These are just a few of the reasons why Gemini’s are so hated. In my opinion, any sign has its pitfalls but many of us try to be as evolved as possible. It seems that Gemini’s feel no need for maturing or evolution as they already think they know everything and are always right. They take a lot of work to be around, but if you can find the right one who’s in the right mood, they can light up a room.
Sincere
Hi, I am in a one-month talking stage with a European Gemini male, and I am an Asian Libra female. I felt like we really match, we both are interested in fashion design, we give so much importance to our families and as well as our education and career. He was the first one to admit his deeper feelings to me. I have lots of insecurities and need constant reassurance from him but I really want to believe his words. One time we nearly ended our situation (talking stage) because I was having a breakdown and was carried away by my emotion. I said sorry of course and said that I really did not mean it, he said that it’s okay and that I should not be upset anymore. I think we are okay but after that time he only said ‘I love you” first one time and I was the one who frequently says it first nowadays as well as saying “I miss you” but he still called me by our endearment but yesterday he called me by my name. It’s been three days that we are not able to talk longer because he is in their village and has no internet connection. I am really confused now also knowing that he is the twin sign Gemini. What do you think I should do? should I believe him that he really likes me or should I ask him for confirmation?
Hi Anne,
Gemini’s are typically called “untrustworthy” only because they tend to change their minds a lot. They have a lot of wants at the same time, and have trouble focusing. So this leads them to changing their minds when they said one thing before and people think they cannot trust them. When really, its just that Gemini has a hard time making decisions.
But to make things clear, it’s better to ask him for confirmation.
Sincere
I’m scorpio, ascendent gemini, moon in capicorn, and I met a man geminis, ascendemt scorpio, moon in capricorn. At first sight I didnt look at him with any intention, but then I notice he was charming, gentle, and show to me very realible, he seems to be so perfect, tha chat we had, what he likes, what I like. We share a yoga class dayli and the last day he found a pretext to chat with me and adter a few weeks we finally had a date. We had dinner and but I admit I was confuse with the situation as I am separate and havent had a date in a loooooong time, after all that night we finally kissed and was great for me. Then a week after that encounter he came back to my city and date again, that day we ended up together, I was more relax that fisrt date, and felt like everything was great for both. But……that was it. sadly he just vanished, he didnt answer back.
I feel si confused, he seemed to be so nice, and honest, passioneted and kind, after that he left the country and now we have chat a couple of time nothing really personal, but I’m afraid of being in contact and get hurt again. I get attached so quickly and I hate to be the easy one.
Hi dear,
I used to be that way. I would lose all sense of my personality whenever I got into a relationship and then all of a sudden my attachment turns into the ugly green monster called, “jealousy” which then made her feel like I was desperately seeking attention. My lifestyle and awareness at the Time didn’t help much either.
The root of the attachment problem stems from your son-mother relationship. In many instances, your mother and / or father probably did not pay enough attention to you while you were growing up so as an adult the lack of attention manifests into attachment issues.
I solved the issues by these two methods:
1. I pretended to have a conversation with my parents and spoke to them as if they were responding back with unconditional Love. I placed two chairs in front of me and “spilled my guts out.” That was a crazy day of Truths hitting hard to the heart. The after effects were a feeling of tremendous relief. It was such a good session that I do not even remember now the context of the “conversation.” These are experiences you want to process out and let go and not hold in.
2. Found my Center. Strengthened my inner-relationship over the years to feel solid enough that my spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical levels are in sync. I feel balanced in every way possible. Whenever something feels “off” my intuition is clear enough to signal to me that I need to get back into balance. It’s paid off in numerous invaluable ways that I could never have imagined.
Hope this help!
Yes you will have a long wonderful relationship with this Gemini man. I’m April 9th and my husband is June 15th. We have been together for 27 years of course with some ups and downs. I truly feel they are the only Zodiac sign that can really handle our fiery personality with care and compassion. If he told you he is interested in you he really thought long and hard about it before he mentioned it to you. My only advice is really keep the spice and fire in the relationship and he will be yours forever.