The man you are having a crush on is charismatic and gregarious.
He has no problem in making friends; yet on the other side, he is quite demanding and moody. With a huge love for challenge and freedom, you will never find him stay too long in one place or do routine.
No matter how long and how well you know him, it’s hard to read his mind.
Sometimes he may confuse you and it’s because of his dual personality.
He probably gets hurt if people misunderstand him as a double-faced person.
If you are interested in a Gemini man and want to make him chase you, then you must know what type of woman he finds most attractive.
What does Gemini man like in a woman?
Maybe the following tips can help you discover the answer!
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6 Things Gemini Man Likes Most in a Woman
1. Her charm & social mood
He is the spirit of all the parties, so there’s no surprising at all if you see him blending in well with all the crowds wherever he goes. No matter what is going on with his surroundings, your Gemini man can adapt with any situation.
That explains he has a common interest in woman who looks attractive and is social with him. This guy prefers a sexy lady with class, not just wearing clothes showing a lot of skin.
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2. Her exciting personality
How to tell if a Gemini man is interested in you?
He is the person that can’t stop looking for endless excitement in his life. In fact, what he scares most is that boredom will hit him at certain times so he always digs in new things to make sure it never happens.
If he has a girlfriend with full of exciting ideas, then his life will be much colorful.
This guy craves to explore fun things, and it would be awesome if he can share his desire with the woman he loves. Whenever he comes up with incredible ideas, stay open to them and don’t forget to offer something exhilarating.
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3. Her respect for his freedom
Gemini man not interested in clingy women at all!
Most importantly, freedom is all to him, more than anything else. If you want to stay with him for a long term, then don’t mess up with his freedom. Whenever he tells you about his future plans, just listen attentively and show your sincere support.
He finds the woman who is independent and can handle her life is super attractive because he is also the person very certain about himself.
Respect his privacy and he will encourage you to pursue your dream 100% in return, even if your dreams were not practical.
Being happy on your own and he will find himself miss you crazy!
4. Her intelligence
Remember that you cannot win his heart with just your drop dead gorgeous looks.
He is not the type of person that gets attracted to the beauty easily. Before he starts his chase, he needs to be stimulated mentally firstly.
Don’t focus on seducing him physically only!
The Gemini male always expects to have an intellectual woman who enables to win his admiration by his side.
5. Her energy
Undoubtedly, this man is an outgoing person.
He enjoys doing all activities, from partying, new projects at work, and outdoor sports to any thing that can keep him busy. He finds it difficult to stay still. Sitting all night on the couch with a bowl full of butter popcorn to watching TV is probably not his thing.
When he is in love with someone, he prefers doing something fun with that person, such as climbing mountains, sailing on weekends, etc.
So, what kind of woman can attract a Gemini man?
He likes to be with a gal who loves experiencing everything with him or at least doesn’t feel mind with what he is doing.
6. Her passion for life
Your Gemini is very passionate about life; thus, he expects to find a partner who also shares the same passion. Together you two will discover about where life can possibly go. Show him your optimism as that’s all he needs from a woman.
Feel free to share your thought about this wonderful life to him, and he will get curious to know about your thrilling plans in the future as well. Be open to him all the things you you’re fascinated or passionate about.
Wrap up
So what does a Gemini man like in a woman?
Being with this guy, you need to upgrade yourself like every single day.
He is very intelligent, so you must widen your knowledge in order to keep up with his intellectual conservation. Besides, display your bright and happy personality because he doesn’t want toxic people in his life.
For more information, don’t mind leaving your questions below!
Hi, I’m a Leo, me and my Gemini Man were on amd off for almost a year and we are LDR. In the beginning of the year the relationship was great, and then there a sudden shift of things I dont know if he is cheating and found someone else or its just because of me always leaving and asking for breakup. He made efforts from the beginning 1-3 months but on the 4th month calls and text messages were missing, he is not as sweet as before. He also talk about future but at first im hesitant about the mariage and Baby thing as Im not yet ready . And the. Now he is now mentioning it. Is it he lose interest in me anymore? Now he just call me not regularly. It breaks my heart. I dont know if he is cheating or what. I asked him to be honest so I could move on , he said no and saying he still loves me. I dont understand. Im abit confuse. He saying he has tons of love always makes plans but his actions are not matching his words
Hi Jes,
Men and women lose interest from time to time. I am sure that has happened to you before.
Remember the phrase: “He’s just not that into you.” I think that was the name of a movie. Whatever it is, you just consider it fate. There is no “saving” the relationship. If one partner loses interest, the other partner needs to wish him or her well. Let h/her go.
Simple as that. No one has the rights to retain anyone who doesn’t want to stay. Don’t be “needy.” Don’t cry or beg. Just smile and wish only sweetness and good things for them.
Have the confidence to be left and move on to someone else who loves you more than you love him.
Guys who do rarely leave you.
Sincere
I’m a Leo woman. Going to through the same exact situation you are going through with my Gemini man. I honestly think my Gemini is a narcissist. He only want me when I’m not here. When he smells me moving on them he bring the goods but in a month or 2 back 2 square one.
I don’t know you like it or believe it or not, but Gemini and Leo can’t be with easily with each, I know such few couples with their troubled marriage, Leo and Gemini has by far the most unparalleled energies. Both has quite a different mind set and personality.
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I’m dating a Gemini moody, controlling, acting like my father, and clingy and he has no friends he always wants to spend time with me and I don’t have time with my family anymore, he is insecure and jealous …last time he asks me if it is possible for me not to have friends so now he only wants me to be friends with him only …he was always checking my phone he began to ask me phone password …he went through my phone deleted my contacts because of his jealous acts…I love him though, but should I be worried?
He told me never to mention the word” break up ” . He said we can always work out things between us. Can he change?
Hi Ally,
This is no longer jealousy but it turns into possessiveness. It can creates a huge problem. He’ll be jealous of every guy you talk to, when you go out together, he’ll be jealous if you look crooked at any guy. He’ll be jealous of every thing you do, because he can’t control you. It may be okay at the beginning of a relationship, but as time goes by it gets just too much, it starts to become a problem.
This is a problem in your boyfriend that only he can fix. It starts with him acknowledging it’s not an acceptable behavior in a relationship. Try to make him understand you and where you’re coming from. In case it doesn’t get through to him, you might need to break up with him or start developing some trust in your own relationship. This is a huge red flag and it won’t stop here if you don’t stop it. It’ll keep getting worse and worse.
I’m not sure what your situation is in detail, but these are all that come to mind based on your answer.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
Ive recently encountered this gemini boy, it’s something about his energy that i find attractive and i want to get to know him better. But i have no idea how to do that without being too aggressive or seeming desperate or overly eager. How do i at least start a convo with him?
Hi Selena,
1. Ask him questions. Just not “yes” or “no” questions – at least, not all the time -, because that’ll get boring.
2. Tell jokes. Guys like comedy and we don’t care too much for deep conversation unless it’s at 2 am and we can’t tell whether or not it’s a dream.
3. Tell him a story. Just keep it short and light. Unless, of course, he’s into you, then it can go on a little longer since he probably just wants to listen to your voice, assuming this is on a phone call.
4. Talk about him.
Sincere
I have been dealing with a younger..much younger Gemini guy for almost year 1 1/2 yr. We will spend time at his place. Drinks, movies, talks. But then we started crashing a lot because no plans to go out or anything. He will say things that sounded like wanted more. I wanted more. But not actions. He kept telling me he had a bad marriage ..which has a child. I will kind demand , date line, break up and he will end reaching out with talks and questions ago it marriage, he even called me and out this kid on the phone to talk to me which surprised me since very private topic. Then he took me out for dinner. And then all went back to mire sexual routine. He wants me exclusive as he claims to be. And if he finds out I even went out with another guy just to hang out its over..his words. He does works a lot.. So I know always tired. Loves to stay in and watch lots of TV.
About 4 months I told him at was best to stay good friends that I enjoyed the friendship. I don’t want to loose it but That I couldn’t handle his inconsistencies and his emotions were all over the place. Talking about marriage then nothing moves forward. So we are very cordial to each other. He gets very excited when I call to say hello.. He texted me once, and we ended intimately. It happened a second time. When asked why we keep ending together he answered because we have chemistry. and on his mind and expressions he believes in. His exclusively. I know this its not leading anywhere.. But is this fake behavior? He is crazy about my age and the sexual part..i get it. But the fact we had heated arguments and all. Bit he still around??
Hi Wanda,
I’m of two minds depending on your degree of initial interest and attraction. If it’s on the high side it may be worth the effort to turn him from the dark side, by letting him know who you are and what your needs are around a relationship and intimacy. Without something about him that you find particularly compelling, you should not waste your time. Not sure what ghost means but I can guess, so do that. Some guys are teachable and if they seem worth it, give it a try.
Good luck.
I am dating this gemini guy we love each other but still he does not believe that I love him I keep asking him what I can do to prove it but he says it is okay . I tell him everyday I love him but he is not maybe it is because of the way I behave . I don’t know what to do and it seems that he has another girl in his life . He introduced this girl to me as a friend but I’m convinced it is more cuz the way he calls me and communicates with me is the same as the two of them . I do not know how to keep interested . He truly loves and has shown it in various ways and I love him too so much. I do not know what to do to let him love me more and leave that girl
Hi dear,
There is nothing for you to do, I’m sure by now you have expressed your love for him in the way you can and want. He can accept or not, that is his choice. So, If he doesn’t believe it is his issue to resolve, he knows himself so let him figure it out. Unless there is some obvious reason like a betrayal that has happened I do not see why he would make that into an issue, unless he has trust or self esteem issues and/or being manipulative. You can’t fix how others feel and think, just be yourself and do your thing. He will come around. And if he doesn’t then it may be your turn to question whether or not you feel loved my him.
Sincere