Gals are always attracted by classic heart-breakers.
And, Gemini man is one of them!
He is naturally flirtatious and just enjoys fun loving affairs. Before dating a Gemini, you must keep in mind that he is not really interesting in a relationship.
Ironically, a Gemini male frequently falls in love but it’s rarely to see him involved in any long-term relationship.
In general, he is the unattached, sociable type that dislikes commitment.
One important thing you should remember is: this guy prefers the chasing. No matter how much you like him, never ever chase him or you will end up losing him.
So, how to get a Gemini man to chase you?
Let’s find out below!
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10 Tips to Get a Gemini Man to Chase You
#1: Be an independent woman
The first thing to attract this guy is to show him how independent you are.
As mentioned above, he hates commitment; therefore, he wants to be with someone who is self-sufficient so that he still can enjoy his freedom without being complained.
It’s fun if you can hang out together with him but don’t be clingy. Instead, you should spend times having fun with friends or on your own. He likes to feel wanted, so don’t make him feel that you cannot live without him.
Update your social media frequently to let him know you are enjoying your life.
#2: Start with the friendship
You shouldn’t show too much eagerness at first.
As this guy gets bored easily, it’s not wise if you go straight to the point so quickly. If you really like him, then you need to lengthen his attention span: try dropping a few subtle hints and pause at the right time to make him curious.
Aggressive women are not his favorite type.
I advise you to focus on becoming his friend to get to know him better so that attracting your Gemini love interest will be much easier.
#3: Evaluate his mood
One thing you may not know is Gemini man in a love relationship is quite moody; because of this, he is seen as a minefield. If you don’t want to see any of his unexpected reactions, then you must gauge his mood in every situation.
He may be intense in the present but can be excited in the next few minutes.
Make sure you can understand his mood swings before he blows you off.
#4: Challenge him
How to attract a Gemini man?
With this guy, the key is to bring up new challenges to him. During an intellectual conversation, you will surely get his attention and interest if you are able to keep him guessing.
Or, maybe you want to suggest new and fascinating things for him to try.
Don’t mind asking him to engage in fun activities that you are taking part in. When you two are together, show him that you are an adaptable person and open to positive changes.
Have you ever thought of showing him your broad knowledge?
Figure out Gemini and Sagittarius soulmates compatibility here!
As this guy is knowledgeable, talking to them is never boring. He has a great understanding for a wide range of things, so you should also keep up with him. Expand your knowledge and then show up with challenges related to a variety of things.
Successfully challenge him and he will get hooked on you.
#5: Don’t play mind games
Born with a great intuition, not surprisingly Gemini man is very sensitive and capable of telling whether or not you are telling the truth. If you want to put up an act, then do not try with this guy as he can point out immediately.
He is very loyal and expects the same from his future partner.
Once feeling cheated by anyone, he will leave without a word.
#6: Be attractive inside out
After going through some failure with a Gemini man, I’ve earned experience for myself and one of them is: upgrading your appearance. If you want to capture his attention, then you have to take care of your wardrobe and makeup.
Who doesn’t like pretty women, right?
To handle a changeable Gemini, it’s better to change your hairstyle, makeover, and taste for fashion frequently.
The key is to keep his interest for you!
#7: Be mysterious
In order to get a Gemini man to chase you, the key is to be unpredictable and mysterious. His attention will immediately fall on you as soon as he feels that you have an air of mystery around. As he likes to be surprised, he cannot resist anyone with a twist personality.
If you want to grab his attention, remember not to spill everything about your life as there will be nothing for him to learn about you. Be a bit unpredictable and play the hard-to-get game with him. It’s okay to disappear from him, but don’t leave for too long or he will look for someone else.
Instead of replying immediately, make him wait for your calls or text messages.
#8: Always be spontaneous
Will a Gemini man chase you if you are spontaneous?
The answer is absolutely yes! Indeed, he loves to be with someone who is spontaneous in any aspect of life. Try doing something impulsively, like suddenly kiss him in the public. He seems to be surprised at first but also loves it.
Because of that, you don’t need to prepare or set up everything beforehand. Sometimes it’s good to let things happen and go with the flow. What is meant to happen will happen; thus, don’t discuss about plan with your Gemini as he hates that.
Also, please never beat around the bush – this guy is always straight to the point and says no to all kinds of games and dramas. If you have anything in mind, just talk to him directly.
#9: Shower him with positive energy
Whether a Gemini man treats you as a friend or not, you will definitely have his attention if displaying a great source of positive energy around him. He wants to be with someone who is easygoing and full of happiness.
What can be better than spending time with a partner who also enjoys doing exciting things as much as he does, the Gemini male believes.
On the other hand, he is afraid of being with toxic people – those spread only the negativity. He never wants to get involved in any intense argument; therefore, don’t create any drama whenever you’re next to a Gemini.
#10: Listen to him attentively
Before getting this guy to chase you, make sure you give him enough attention at first.
Similar to Leo, Gemini also craves for spotlight. In love, he expects to be showered in your attention and will provide his in return. Once both of you engage in a deep, serious conversation, you should show how attentive you are by listening to things he talks about.
As he likes to talk about things he loves, all you need to do is to remember each small detail and then surprise him in special occasions.
Final Words
How much a Gemini man needs to put in to make a relationship succeed?
You may think he cannot stay faithful due to his flirty nature; however, he is actually loyal once you give him an opportunity to walk into your life. He is worth investing your feelings and sentiment.
Don’t let him go or you will regret later for not asking him to stay.
The above tips have guided you on how to get a Gemini man to chase you. Remember to keep your cool when interacting with him: don’t make your eagerness for him too obvious.
Since he loves his freedom, you have to respect his need rather than nagging him all the time. See also tips to make him miss you!
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Does anyone have any advice for a libra woman and gemini man? We are still new in the game. He is very kind and a true gentleman, but works so much and I barely talk to him. We do go out and if I suggest anything he is always in agreement and onboard, but it is still something I just don’t get about him. I can not exactly place my finger on it. I think he wants something from me, but I can not figure it out right now. He is very materialistic. He always want to be different than anyone else and stand out. When we go out he always want to pay and never allow me to pick up the tab. The sex was not all that great the first time, but we only done it once. Sometimes I just loose words to talk about topics with him. He is a family man for sure and have older children (23, 18, and 15 yrs old). I have not invited him to my home because something in my gut tells me to be cautious with him, like he is not definite or in it for the long haul although he speaks like he will be. We are from two different cultures, if this could be the reason I am feeling so awkward. I just do not know right now. In the beginning he asked a lot of questions so openly, of course I did not answer them directly. I am a secretive person and very apprehensive about people openly asking too many questions. So any advice is greatly appreciated.
Hi dear,
Well they are the ones who actually make the best couple as good as magical. Offcourse other things needs to be considered like moon sign and rising sign etc but on a broader picture they are both very much similar to each other and make very harmonious pair.They both are air signs ,they both love socializing a lot,they both are ultimate chatter box ,they both are mentally stimulating people and they both are very cerebral.Libra although is a bit diplomatic and Geminis pretty straight forward most of the time but then they go along so well together that it comes down to enjoying simple things together like watching movies plays doing adventure sports ot just idle book reading with a cup of coffee! Gemini brings out the childlike innocence from Libra and Libras gives them secure heaven to stop at and build life around it.There planets are natural allies mercury and Venus planet of love are very compatible and hence they are born to be together and enjoy each others company intimately,mentally,emotionally and from great friendship to life long buddies!
Sincere
Adrian,
Thank you for your reply and that may be true, but since my last comment I ended it completely. I did mention we were from two different cultures and it was something hidden that I just could not place my hands on and this gut instinct I had would not allow me to ignore it. I was born an empath and seer. If I dream it, it will always happen. My dreams are just vision to allow me to see what is happening in this world when I am actually asleep.
As a Libra when something troubles me spiritually and cause my scales to be off balance, I always put them through the ultimate test. It never fails, the truth always manifest itself. This guy was after my money and wanted me to help him become a US Citizen. When I would not agree to any of that nonsense, then his attitude changed completely. His true nature surfaced (shall we call it the other side of the gemini), I would not. I am a firm believer nobody should never overlook any misbehaviors. If they said it or done it, take it as though they meant to do it; regardless of how many times they apologized.
I have only one rule, “you get one chance with me, put your best foot forward”. I do not believe in second chances in relationships because I give too much the first time around. If a person respects and values me, then he will do right the first time because he should recognize I am a rare jewel.
BESIDES, I felt no chemistry with this guy. I tried to believe it was a spark there, but after the sex was horrible and the conversations were all about materialistic gains…. let’s just say he was not the right one. Peace, Light and Love to him on his journey.
Hi i am a scorpio how do me and a gemini connect?
Hi dear,
Show some love just a little once in a while, without direct communication on purpose.
Whenever you notice him holding back or doing something that is a result of your wants and needs dont say how sweet he is for it. Let him know by actions that he did the right thing. Say small truly meant compliments to him like: I love the way you help me with my study…listen to my interests at work etc.
Show your insecurities but don’t be emotional.
Prank him the same way his friends do.
Sincere
I’m a Libra woman attracted to a Gemini man, he lives in my neighborhood, stares at me a lot but we don’t talk.
Hi Lilian,
Libra and Geminis are natural allies. They often meet and come across finding each other in social gathering.For a Libra woman as risk takers and bold they are Geminis are not hard to please, if you approach them directly striking the conversation it will automatically work and take the natural course. Geminis are very candid and genuine people and have great sense of humor. Librans are master story teller and could impress Geminis with their striking coversations.A decent rational debate with a Gemini will stimulate their brains mentally and a good general knowledge would hit them hard on their brain which is the gateway to their heart!
Sincere
I’m a Leo and have been sleeping with a Gemini for about 5 months. He has a live in girl friend and works a lot. We connect well with conversation and sex. But I am always in my feelings bc we don’t spend enough time together. Or I feel like he’s not into me as much as I’m into him. I kinda flash and send him plenty of texts expressing how I feel. In which he’ll adhere to my requests. And then he’ll drift off again. So it’s become a cycle where we are constantly quarreling. And he’s stated he doesn’t like confrontation. I recently decided to cut things off cold turkey. For real this time… but doubled back two days later bc I have things for him. I asked if he still wanted the items. Offered to meet him with them. And tried to explain why we can’t just go back to being “friends”. Well, he’s ignored the hell out of me instead of responding. In my mind I know to move on. But my feelings for him won’t allow me to. I am lost.
Hi dear,
One cannot control their feelings for someone else…its not your fault because you love him and its very natural to do this. But now he doesn’t want you two to go back to being friends, you will have to be strong. Obviously that wasn’t justified..you just did what your heart said you to; that wasn’t your mistake…it is completely his fault..you just showed your love towards him. But don’t forget one thing in life…whatever happens in your life..there is a reason behind it…you just have to get that reason.
Sincere
How do I get Gemini man to become friends with me? I’m Aries and all I want is his friendship. He use to text me the. Randomly stoped….but when talking to face to face he’s fine like nothing happened. I don’t get what’s his problem is…
Hi Rupinder,
If a Gemeni man ignores you it’s because you don’t understand their complex personality, their needs and wants. If he demonstrated to you his interest and attraction, then he will have said what he wants and what he wants to avoid, but if you created conflict or something is preventing him to move forward with you whatever the reason being, he will now ignore you.
They may also ignore you if you tell them that you are so busy, problems happened and you don’t have much time, and you’ll try somehow, when it’s convienent for you to contact them which is you saying ther are important in your life. Or he’ll just ignore you. If he’s into you, he’ll say he’ll say directly what will happen. He may say to not call him anymore, text him anymore. He may not give a reason but you already would know the reason.
Sincere