Gals are always attracted by classic heart-breakers.
And, Gemini man is one of them!
He is naturally flirtatious and just enjoys fun loving affairs. Before dating a Gemini, you must keep in mind that he is not really interesting in a relationship.
Ironically, a Gemini male frequently falls in love but it’s rarely to see him involved in any long-term relationship.
In general, he is the unattached, sociable type that dislikes commitment.
One important thing you should remember is: this guy prefers the chasing. No matter how much you like him, never ever chase him or you will end up losing him.
So, how to get a Gemini man to chase you?
Let’s find out below!
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10 Tips to Get a Gemini Man to Chase You
#1: Be an independent woman
The first thing to attract this guy is to show him how independent you are.
As mentioned above, he hates commitment; therefore, he wants to be with someone who is self-sufficient so that he still can enjoy his freedom without being complained.
It’s fun if you can hang out together with him but don’t be clingy. Instead, you should spend times having fun with friends or on your own. He likes to feel wanted, so don’t make him feel that you cannot live without him.
Update your social media frequently to let him know you are enjoying your life.
#2: Start with the friendship
You shouldn’t show too much eagerness at first.
As this guy gets bored easily, it’s not wise if you go straight to the point so quickly. If you really like him, then you need to lengthen his attention span: try dropping a few subtle hints and pause at the right time to make him curious.
Aggressive women are not his favorite type.
I advise you to focus on becoming his friend to get to know him better so that attracting your Gemini love interest will be much easier.
#3: Evaluate his mood
One thing you may not know is Gemini man in a love relationship is quite moody; because of this, he is seen as a minefield. If you don’t want to see any of his unexpected reactions, then you must gauge his mood in every situation.
He may be intense in the present but can be excited in the next few minutes.
Make sure you can understand his mood swings before he blows you off.
#4: Challenge him
How to attract a Gemini man?
With this guy, the key is to bring up new challenges to him. During an intellectual conversation, you will surely get his attention and interest if you are able to keep him guessing.
Or, maybe you want to suggest new and fascinating things for him to try.
Don’t mind asking him to engage in fun activities that you are taking part in. When you two are together, show him that you are an adaptable person and open to positive changes.
Have you ever thought of showing him your broad knowledge?
Figure out Gemini and Sagittarius soulmates compatibility here!
As this guy is knowledgeable, talking to them is never boring. He has a great understanding for a wide range of things, so you should also keep up with him. Expand your knowledge and then show up with challenges related to a variety of things.
Successfully challenge him and he will get hooked on you.
#5: Don’t play mind games
Born with a great intuition, not surprisingly Gemini man is very sensitive and capable of telling whether or not you are telling the truth. If you want to put up an act, then do not try with this guy as he can point out immediately.
He is very loyal and expects the same from his future partner.
Once feeling cheated by anyone, he will leave without a word.
#6: Be attractive inside out
After going through some failure with a Gemini man, I’ve earned experience for myself and one of them is: upgrading your appearance. If you want to capture his attention, then you have to take care of your wardrobe and makeup.
Who doesn’t like pretty women, right?
To handle a changeable Gemini, it’s better to change your hairstyle, makeover, and taste for fashion frequently.
The key is to keep his interest for you!
#7: Be mysterious
In order to get a Gemini man to chase you, the key is to be unpredictable and mysterious. His attention will immediately fall on you as soon as he feels that you have an air of mystery around. As he likes to be surprised, he cannot resist anyone with a twist personality.
If you want to grab his attention, remember not to spill everything about your life as there will be nothing for him to learn about you. Be a bit unpredictable and play the hard-to-get game with him. It’s okay to disappear from him, but don’t leave for too long or he will look for someone else.
Instead of replying immediately, make him wait for your calls or text messages.
#8: Always be spontaneous
Will a Gemini man chase you if you are spontaneous?
The answer is absolutely yes! Indeed, he loves to be with someone who is spontaneous in any aspect of life. Try doing something impulsively, like suddenly kiss him in the public. He seems to be surprised at first but also loves it.
Because of that, you don’t need to prepare or set up everything beforehand. Sometimes it’s good to let things happen and go with the flow. What is meant to happen will happen; thus, don’t discuss about plan with your Gemini as he hates that.
Also, please never beat around the bush – this guy is always straight to the point and says no to all kinds of games and dramas. If you have anything in mind, just talk to him directly.
#9: Shower him with positive energy
Whether a Gemini man treats you as a friend or not, you will definitely have his attention if displaying a great source of positive energy around him. He wants to be with someone who is easygoing and full of happiness.
What can be better than spending time with a partner who also enjoys doing exciting things as much as he does, the Gemini male believes.
On the other hand, he is afraid of being with toxic people – those spread only the negativity. He never wants to get involved in any intense argument; therefore, don’t create any drama whenever you’re next to a Gemini.
#10: Listen to him attentively
Before getting this guy to chase you, make sure you give him enough attention at first.
Similar to Leo, Gemini also craves for spotlight. In love, he expects to be showered in your attention and will provide his in return. Once both of you engage in a deep, serious conversation, you should show how attentive you are by listening to things he talks about.
As he likes to talk about things he loves, all you need to do is to remember each small detail and then surprise him in special occasions.
Final Words
How much a Gemini man needs to put in to make a relationship succeed?
You may think he cannot stay faithful due to his flirty nature; however, he is actually loyal once you give him an opportunity to walk into your life. He is worth investing your feelings and sentiment.
Don’t let him go or you will regret later for not asking him to stay.
The above tips have guided you on how to get a Gemini man to chase you. Remember to keep your cool when interacting with him: don’t make your eagerness for him too obvious.
Since he loves his freedom, you have to respect his need rather than nagging him all the time. See also tips to make him miss you!
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Hi I am in a situationship with a Gemini man. I’m an Aries woman. This man pursues me and convinced me that we should try dating. Once I give in hes in love but then all of a sudden the contact and attention he was giving me is less and less. I’m irritated to be honest. Before this I was good. Now its like mind games. I don’t want to ask him because I feel like a pest. Plus he was on me heavy. I never noticed him before that. Why is he distancing his self after bothering my soul?
Hi Jasmine,
If he lessens his behavior DRASTICALLY then that means that he actually likes you. If he doesn’t change or worsens the behavior it means he doesn’t like you.
So if you ignore him for a day and he starts chasing after you and you continue to ignore him and he continues to chase after you, then you’re in the clear. If you ignore him but a week or two go by without him making an effort to correct your change in behavior – then you need to find yourself a new love interest. For your sake, I hope it’s not the latter outcome…
Best of luck!
Hi there,
I’ve been dating a Gemini man for 2.5 years with 1.5 of that being long distance.
I’m a virgo woman with a strong Aquarius rising.
We’ve just done a year apart and have been back living together at his parents property (saving from pandemic loss) for about 4 months now.
He keeps bouncing back and forth with moods of love and then complete opposite dissatisfaction. He even at one point said he doesn’t feel the spark between us one week, and then the next he’s giving me passionate shower sex.
I am sure living with the parents is apart of this and we are moving out in 3.5 months, but I am scared that our relationship is Rocky and I don’t want it to end.
I’m confused if he still wants this or not but I want to know what I should do other then focus on myself for a bit?
Because Gemini men love the chase and, well…you’ve been caught.
On to the next game
Don’t try and beat him at this game. It’ll be a waste of time. They are master manipulators.
Trust me. Pull away from him. Don’t disappear but seem distant and unshook, I guarantee he’ll stop pulling away just long enough for you to let your guard down again…BOOM here comes the evil twin.
Ambiguous
And
Arrogant
Those are the words I would use to describe Gemini men
Hi.. This is the first time that I am dating a Gemini guy I am cancer/Leo combination 22nd July. Today I accepted his proposal and I wanted to know how it’s gonna work, because I was into a long term relationship with a Virgo guy but he cheated me so now I am afraid if I gonna fall apart again. Need suggestion. And yes it’s a long distance relationship with a Gemini guy I never been to long distance relationship before so I am afraid how I am gonna manage.
Anyone please help me out.
Thanks!
Hi Saida,
Here’s what helped a lot…
Find out if your compatible early on. Forget fixing and changing the person. If you do not know what you want in a relationship, you shouldn’t be even trying this.
Words, behavior, mind games, amplify 10 times more than local. Avoid the mind games and avoid at all cost any drama. See #3
No talk about ex’s, no talk about you had sex accidentally, none of these games. The person may not say anything but guaranteed, you have made a crack in what could have been a beautiful connection and relationship by these immature behavior.
If you got something to prove, I don’t care if you’re feminist or not, political, religious, whatever – keep these out of your conversations. These only create arguments, resentment and drama. This is not a time to preach but time to create a bond, build on chemistry you have.
The reciprocation needs to be balanced. No excuses. If someone gives then you give. If you don’t and take the other person for granted, they’ll see that you’re not interested or lost interested and move on.
If your partner asks you question, regarding what’s going on due to whatever they feel, calm the fuck down. Don’t go off rambling on telling your partner they are wrong, how their expectations is too much. The only reason you do that is you are guilty of doing some mind games. Be calm, ask questions on what the person means and if you have, stop it. Older person is, the smarter they are to detect such things. Which brings me to age..
If you’re still a teen, forget long distance. Focus local. You haven’t the money, the freedom to be able to travel just like that. Your resources are limited. So forget it. Focus local because no way you can manage this especially when you do need to meet the person. You haven’t the patience for this.
Focus on you two, not the world, not what’s going on there, not fucking trump or any political figure, or what your friends did. Each time you are both communicating took a lot of effort, organisation, managing things. Use this time wisely and build on increasing chemistry, increasing affection, increasing rapport, increasing the desire to get closer and to meet.
Be Consistent. You need to mind your emotions. If you had a bad day, then do not communicate. Be consistent in your affection, reciprocation value and building on the chemistry. If you had a bad day, then just let person know it was a long day and you don’t want the emotions from it trickle in conversation. You’ll contact soon, tomorrow when you feel fine. That you value what you both have. The person will understand.
Be Observant. Understand we live in a time of social media. Action matters a lot. If you go off blocking someone you are supposed to care about, who you supposed to be transparent with, then they will start thinking something is up. You took action to find their name, you clicked on it, you then pressed button to block this person. This is a sign you are hiding something. Be observant of your own actions. It must make sense and this does not make sense when you do that to someone you want to meet, is serious about. They are observant too!
Be Reliable . It takes a lot for someone to make time for a phone call, Skype and even texting. There is a time difference. Be reliable and don’t make excuses for your lack of manners when it has been agreed on. None of this “but I was busy.” This is not good enough. The person has a life, they are working or studying. They may had to arrange things so they can have that talk privately with you. They may have rushed through traffic or said no to friends or relatives when they asked if they can make it somewhere. Be reliable. If you can’t make it, send a message days before. Respect someone’s time.
Make plans and stick with it. If both plan to meet in future, then don’t suddenly down the line start changing things. It takes a lot for someone to plan this out. Make plans together, agree on them together and work together to make it happen, instead of sabotaging it.
Many make these mistakes and knowing these helped a great deal for me.
Help! I’m in love with my gemini friend 13 years of friendship and 4 years ( FWB) Now When I separated with my ex husband I got with him (fwb) . After 4 months I asked if we could take it further. He stated he was happy as it was. We didn’t speak for afew weeks as was so upset but I thought ok it’s early stages don’t push. We couldn’t stay away from one another and back to fwb. Fast track 3 years later, we have become so much closer. The trust we gave and the comfortableness eith another has deepened. We are in contact everyday if not it’s one or two days or not talking . He has shown very much his jealousy even though admits he isn’t. Questions me about other men, says i’m free to sleep with them etc. Mind you his the only man iv slept with since seperating. I don’t want to sleep with anyone else as I feel I would be cheating on him . I have found he definitely has feelings for me but holds them in a lot. His actions everything comes across as we are together but we aren’t. he has told me in general convo that his happy to have someone but not get married etc . It’s come to a point now where since the first time I met him laid eyes on him he has taken my heart. Iv fallen deeply in love with him and don’t know what to do anymore. Do I ask again for something more or let him make the move and if he does that is. He does always say great friends great sex but I know deep down there’s more feelings from him. Even friends say it .. I’m happy as we are but I know if he wanted more he would have asked me out already. Not sure confused and in love..
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Hi, I’m a Sagittarius. My love interest is a Gemini. We have been friends for 3 years now. We started messing around at one point and one day I decided that I was going to start my celibacy journey. According to him he says he thinks he’s in love with me and how “someday” I’m going to be his wife. Sometimes he’s supportive of my decision and other times he’s trying to get me back in bed with him. He has always been so calm & gentle with me and is always motivating and checking on me. I still can’t help feeling like he’s just trying to get me back in bed with him. I don’t know if it’s just me overthinking…PLEASE HELP
Hi dear,
When a man is interested in starting a genuine relationship with a woman, he will be willing to forego sex for a period of time to prove to you that he is genuine, out of respect and he’d like to get to know you first.
Of course it’s up to you if you’d like to initiate sex or not but I personally don’t think it does much to prove anything in the beginning but say you give yourself away too easily
Sincere