Gals are always attracted by classic heart-breakers.
And, Gemini man is one of them!
He is naturally flirtatious and just enjoys fun loving affairs. Before dating a Gemini, you must keep in mind that he is not really interesting in a relationship.
Ironically, a Gemini male frequently falls in love but it’s rarely to see him involved in any long-term relationship.
In general, he is the unattached, sociable type that dislikes commitment.
One important thing you should remember is: this guy prefers the chasing. No matter how much you like him, never ever chase him or you will end up losing him.
So, how to get a Gemini man to chase you?
Let’s find out below!
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10 Tips to Get a Gemini Man to Chase You
#1: Be an independent woman
The first thing to attract this guy is to show him how independent you are.
As mentioned above, he hates commitment; therefore, he wants to be with someone who is self-sufficient so that he still can enjoy his freedom without being complained.
It’s fun if you can hang out together with him but don’t be clingy. Instead, you should spend times having fun with friends or on your own. He likes to feel wanted, so don’t make him feel that you cannot live without him.
Update your social media frequently to let him know you are enjoying your life.
#2: Start with the friendship
You shouldn’t show too much eagerness at first.
As this guy gets bored easily, it’s not wise if you go straight to the point so quickly. If you really like him, then you need to lengthen his attention span: try dropping a few subtle hints and pause at the right time to make him curious.
Aggressive women are not his favorite type.
I advise you to focus on becoming his friend to get to know him better so that attracting your Gemini love interest will be much easier.
#3: Evaluate his mood
One thing you may not know is Gemini man in a love relationship is quite moody; because of this, he is seen as a minefield. If you don’t want to see any of his unexpected reactions, then you must gauge his mood in every situation.
He may be intense in the present but can be excited in the next few minutes.
Make sure you can understand his mood swings before he blows you off.
#4: Challenge him
How to attract a Gemini man?
With this guy, the key is to bring up new challenges to him. During an intellectual conversation, you will surely get his attention and interest if you are able to keep him guessing.
Or, maybe you want to suggest new and fascinating things for him to try.
Don’t mind asking him to engage in fun activities that you are taking part in. When you two are together, show him that you are an adaptable person and open to positive changes.
Have you ever thought of showing him your broad knowledge?
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As this guy is knowledgeable, talking to them is never boring. He has a great understanding for a wide range of things, so you should also keep up with him. Expand your knowledge and then show up with challenges related to a variety of things.
Successfully challenge him and he will get hooked on you.
#5: Don’t play mind games
Born with a great intuition, not surprisingly Gemini man is very sensitive and capable of telling whether or not you are telling the truth. If you want to put up an act, then do not try with this guy as he can point out immediately.
He is very loyal and expects the same from his future partner.
Once feeling cheated by anyone, he will leave without a word.
#6: Be attractive inside out
After going through some failure with a Gemini man, I’ve earned experience for myself and one of them is: upgrading your appearance. If you want to capture his attention, then you have to take care of your wardrobe and makeup.
Who doesn’t like pretty women, right?
To handle a changeable Gemini, it’s better to change your hairstyle, makeover, and taste for fashion frequently.
The key is to keep his interest for you!
#7: Be mysterious
In order to get a Gemini man to chase you, the key is to be unpredictable and mysterious. His attention will immediately fall on you as soon as he feels that you have an air of mystery around. As he likes to be surprised, he cannot resist anyone with a twist personality.
If you want to grab his attention, remember not to spill everything about your life as there will be nothing for him to learn about you. Be a bit unpredictable and play the hard-to-get game with him. It’s okay to disappear from him, but don’t leave for too long or he will look for someone else.
Instead of replying immediately, make him wait for your calls or text messages.
#8: Always be spontaneous
Will a Gemini man chase you if you are spontaneous?
The answer is absolutely yes! Indeed, he loves to be with someone who is spontaneous in any aspect of life. Try doing something impulsively, like suddenly kiss him in the public. He seems to be surprised at first but also loves it.
Because of that, you don’t need to prepare or set up everything beforehand. Sometimes it’s good to let things happen and go with the flow. What is meant to happen will happen; thus, don’t discuss about plan with your Gemini as he hates that.
Also, please never beat around the bush – this guy is always straight to the point and says no to all kinds of games and dramas. If you have anything in mind, just talk to him directly.
#9: Shower him with positive energy
Whether a Gemini man treats you as a friend or not, you will definitely have his attention if displaying a great source of positive energy around him. He wants to be with someone who is easygoing and full of happiness.
What can be better than spending time with a partner who also enjoys doing exciting things as much as he does, the Gemini male believes.
On the other hand, he is afraid of being with toxic people – those spread only the negativity. He never wants to get involved in any intense argument; therefore, don’t create any drama whenever you’re next to a Gemini.
#10: Listen to him attentively
Before getting this guy to chase you, make sure you give him enough attention at first.
Similar to Leo, Gemini also craves for spotlight. In love, he expects to be showered in your attention and will provide his in return. Once both of you engage in a deep, serious conversation, you should show how attentive you are by listening to things he talks about.
As he likes to talk about things he loves, all you need to do is to remember each small detail and then surprise him in special occasions.
Final Words
How much a Gemini man needs to put in to make a relationship succeed?
You may think he cannot stay faithful due to his flirty nature; however, he is actually loyal once you give him an opportunity to walk into your life. He is worth investing your feelings and sentiment.
Don’t let him go or you will regret later for not asking him to stay.
The above tips have guided you on how to get a Gemini man to chase you. Remember to keep your cool when interacting with him: don’t make your eagerness for him too obvious.
Since he loves his freedom, you have to respect his need rather than nagging him all the time. See also tips to make him miss you!
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Hi
I am a Sagittarius woman having a long distance relationship with a Gemini man for three months now. I can feel that he loves me and his sincerity in our relationship. He’s not moody and he’s very positive fun loving and very vocal with his feelings and expectations with our relationship and I am also the same as he is. Actually he is very opposite of the other Gemini man describes in the other comments here.
I just have a doubt. How will i know if he already moved on from the past long term relationship he had. Well they have been separated for more than a year however whenever i am asking him regarding that he’s not comfortable to talk about it.
Hi Suzy,
Overall, women encounter more strong psychological stress in the short term. Men on the other hand don’t experience as much psychological stress as women, but they are also less likely to fully recover. This may be because women talk to their friends more openly about it with their feelings, while men tend to repress their feelings and try to convey they are a ‘cool alpha bro’. Also, it’s typically easier for women to find a new partner than it is for a man.
When you stop reacting to the thought in a negative way. That’s been the case in my experience.
Immediately after a breakup (move on is associated with that topic in my head) you respond negatively to anything involving that person and try to suppress the thought, and then it makes it even stronger. Over time, you learn to allow the thought to float through your mind peacefully and it passes. When you can do this with anything in life that’S affected, I would say you’ve moved on or are at least in the process.
Sincere
Hi this is very helpful since am dealing with a Gemini man who sometimes gives me inconsistent love and confusion as I often ask myself if he is really into me sometimes. But I got to understand that sometimes he just needs his space. I am a cancer women and I am soo into this Gemini man but my other heart says he is not loving me enough like how I do and this frustrates me I just want to blow up.how do I remain calm and be assured at the same time that he really loves me.deep down my heart I have this feeling that he does love me but not as much as I do.because he never leaves even though I tried many times to leave him because of his inconsistent.he is just here hey.the other thing I have issues with is his flirting to a point were I think he does it with my friends or people I know and when I ask him he gets upset and just say he doesn’t know them or even talked to them. Soo I really need advise about being assured that he is into me so I can calm down and relax because he doesn’t want to give me that when I ask him why he just says he doesn’t want to get hurt.
Hi dear,
I can say that as a sign we are very easily distracted. Often times onto the next best thing or person. And this is key. We can be very superficial, smart nonetheless… it is incredible the depth of knowledge we seek to obtain, on a topic we care about.
We know many people in passing , but if we are interested – we do research and we take the time to learn about you.
So if we are focused on you, especially in a room full of stimulation, we are interested. We won’t break eye contact, we won’t leave the conversation.
Also in terms of being easily distracted, when a conversation seems to have died off, we will continue it. Asking you question after question. Getting to know you, and also asking your opinion. Rather than seeking out the next best thing…
If we like you, we actually listen to you. If you’re speaking in front of a group, watch how we behave when someone else has taken the floor, versus when you have taken the floor. We may look up and not look around or down. I’ll be the first to mention that we can be incredible pretenders, much of the time to not hurt anyone’s feeling…if we are all ears and engaged 100% with you, you know…
We will seek you out of a crowd.
We will flirt, but we flirt with most people. Many people won’t hold our attention for long, nor disrupt our flow. I may chat and laugh with someone on the way to the break room, then we go our separate ways. If I want you, I’ll laugh, flirt, and ask you if you’d like to join me.
If we think you’re interesting we will text you. We are communicators. We will often have a lot to say (hence this answer), so if you find that we send you long texts into any hours of the night. View your messages and respond back with thought, and clarity no matter the hour – we’re interested.
You will notice, because although we give a lot of people an opportunity , not many will hold our attention. We can flirt from group to group, mingle and text. But if we bring you along with us – however that plays out – well, you got you a Gemini ;)
Sincere
I feel the same about my Gemini. The way I feel loved is being checked up on by someone I want everyday. So when I don’t get the texts, messages, and more just to feel connected I feel abandoned. And once I feel like that I will go away.
hi,
basically i’ve liked this gemini guy for a year or so and he’s told me that he doesn’t like me that way before. however, i told him again how i felt {a few months later} and he didn’t believe me and he said that in a few years he may be ready. He also never starts conversations with me which makes me feel like he doesn’t like me.
i’m a libra btw :)
i don’t know what really i should do…
Hi dear,
The closest surefire way to tell is to ask him. It beats hanging around waiting for him to make a move or not or give you some kind of sign from the heavens. I know rejection seems scarier, but having been in both positions? Being rejected was much better because then I could MOVE THE HELL ON with my life and pursue boys who might be interested back that I didn’t have to read like tea leaves. It was sharp, up-front pain.. but it wasn’t drawn out over months or even years, like my first crush.
That said? People who like you will act like they like you. I’m talking about basic like, not attraction. This applies to friends as well as love interests.
Sincere
Please help, I really like this Gemini guy. We were talking for a few weeks and he told me that he likes me. We vibe very will, he started Facetiming me. It was great until a couple of weeks ago. He facetime me one Thursday morning earlier and we talked for hours until to was time for both of us to go to work. I sent him a text later that day stating that I enjoyed our talk this morning. I did not get a response back and did not think anything of it since we both work a lot. The next day I was out with some friends and got a call from him so I took the call, he told me that he works a lot , he has his son with him, and just wanted to be friends. Then he asked if I was mad, which I was, but responded that I was disappointed. I later had to calm down then I sent him a text message that his phone call was so out of left field, that I always stated that I would not disturb his peace and that I though we were friends. He responded back okay I understand yeah we are friends. WTF! Can you please help because I really do like this guy?
Hi dear,
They are hard to understand, they can be loyal and cheater both at the same time. They never show and give clearance on any matter, they mostly want to hide the things and don’t want others to know fully. You can find them communicating very goodly in public or completely opposite they don’t want to communicate much. They often takes lots of time to share their personal problems and secrets but still they don’t share till you are together sitting along.
Sincere
Well, im dating a gemini now for over 6 years…4 years long distance and going on 3 years where we lived in the neighboring cities. I still don’t understand his thought process or behaviors. Geminis are not communicators at all…well hes not! Hes very flirtatious even with women in my family and frens. I dont trust him atound women at all eventhough he claims hes been faithful all these years(highly doubt). He claims he wants to make me his wife many times but hasn’t put in time or effort to make it happen. Im a virgo so according to this compatibility study, we are not compatible at all. He refuses to let go each time u try to walk away. He fights for the relationship but i don’t understand why when hes not showing in tangible signs of wanting more. Im about tired and frustrated at this point. Theres so much more i can elaborate about but you get the drift. I csnt seem to get him to move faster than a snail. He does fit the script of a true gemini though and it aggrevates the hell out of me. I just cant bother anymore.