What to do when a Gemini woman ignores you?
Known as the Twins, Gemini is the friendliest sign among all in the zodiac. With the element of air, this is the third sign. Women having Gemini sign in the birth chart are sociable, adventurous, creative, outgoing, and eager for new experiences. She wants to live her life to the fullest and is never into routines.
Once a Gemini woman ignores you, it’s probably because you’ve done something bothering or hurting her. You may push her over the edge making this lady has no other option but to give you silent treatment.
Let’s find out some common reasons why she pays no attention to you.
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4 Reasons a Gemini Female Ignores You…

1. She is heartbroken
Despite being happy and enthusiastic most of the time, the Gemini female is emotional indeed. She doesn’t get hurt easily; however, she won’t hide it if you play with her feelings. This lady won’t hold back – very expressive, her emotional pains will be brought on the surface obviously.
Nevertheless, don’t be surprised if she stays silent to you. Gemini woman prefers to keep the issue to herself instead of solving it directly with you. Independent and full of positive thoughts, she will come up with solutions for the problem on her own.
Life still continues and nothing can stop her living her life to the fullest.
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2. She is a busy person
Due to Gemini personality traits, she is a hardworking, dedicate individual.
She won’t mind staying up for three consecutive nights to accomplish all works for her project. In case this woman ignores you, don’t quickly conclude anything. Perhaps she is just busy with all the tasks and has no intention to create this misunderstanding.
Tell her beforehand when you know she is busy dealing with many schedules, and she will try to spare her time for you. Don’t force her to meet you because Gemini doesn’t like to be controlled.
She is a supportive lover who will never forget the significant of her family, partner, and friends. Life is real and cruel, so please show your empathy to her as she already gave the same thing to you in the beginning.
Let’s see if you are the best match for Gemini woman!
3. She doesn’t have you in her heart
When a Gemini woman ignores you, maybe it’s because she has no interest in you in general. Though she is social on the outside, she is not the type that would open up her personal matters to everyone. When it comes to giving trust to someone, this gal is selective.
She will never tell you her problems if her heart feels nothing towards you.
As an emotional creature, the Gemini female falls in love hard and barely ignores anyone as frequent. Nonetheless, the moment she turns you down, it could be a sign she has no passion or emotion romantically for you.
If you don’t ask, then she will keep it to herself.
4. She doesn’t like an inquisitive guy
We all know Gemini-born natives are talkative. They love conversations having detailed and descriptive information because they can learn from those. If you want to impress this person, choose a topic reflecting some actual meaning to life.
The thing is that you shouldn’t be inquisitive about a specific subject that your Gemini woman doesn’t want to mention at all. If you feel her expressions change negatively, it’s a good idea to change the topic.
Don’t force her to talk because that issue may hurt her the moment she talks about it; otherwise, she will ignore you immediately. For this to be resolved, you need to be more calm and collected. Whether it’s a friendship or a relationship, she doesn’t want anyone to curious or focus much on her personal problems.
Give her time and she will reveal all by herself!
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A Gemini Woman Takes a Long Time to Respond
Now take a notice and see if the conversations between you and Gemini woman are in the slow pace. When she is ignoring you or pulling away, it takes her a long time to answer your questions or reply your text messages.
However, not all cases of her taking a long time to respond are because she ignores you. Don’t quickly jump to any conclusions!
Sometimes she may pay much focus on other things or have a conversation with someone else, and those could distract the Gemini female from responding to your talk at the same time. Or perhaps she has no idea about how to answer you because she is uncertain with her thoughts.
In other cases, she is just too shy or confused.
Overall, if your Gemini partner needs a long time to get back to the conversation with you, then the possibility is that she may be either concerned or annoyed with you.
Wrap up
What to do when a Gemini woman ignores you?
This lady is passionate, caring and willing to do anything to please her partner. In return, she expects you to pay attention to her emotions. She is obvious yet subtle at the same time – you can tell that she is annoyed with you by her facial expressions and attitudes, but she refuses to say it out.
You must be considerate about her to figure it out. If your Gemini woman ignores you, then please approach her in a kind and calm way. Don’t be too intense as she is an emotional person.
Give her time to be alone to reload everything; no need to worry because she will open up about what is on her mind when she’s ready. In case you hurt her, then she will let you explain yourself. During the conversation, please be attentive to what she said as it’s a rare opportunity to get the Gemini female to forgive you.
Have you been with a Gemini woman before?
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I’ve date a gemini woman I’m a capricorn man. We dated for a year. And we had petty arguments that I felt were resolved and then we were ment to meet up for a long weekend but that day we had an intence argument over the phone .and fro. That day things have been horrible she hasn’t really spoken to me days she seems ok the. Now she says she is with someone else. I mean we were going o get engaged this December.
Hi Jo,
Both these planets together signify passion. A capricorn may well have their venus in aquarius trining the gemini’s sun. If the gemini has sun conjunct mars they may well be irresistible to the capricorn. If the capricorn’s sun was conjunct the other’s venus/mars midpoint there would be instant interest. The gemini may well have a taurus venus which trines the capricorn’s sun. Instant attraction for some. You would also have to judge other placements like are the respective sun and moon placements in accord for spirit and soul compatability. Someone’s sun or ascendant on the sun/moon midpoint could seem an ideal partner. The sun degree and placement alone only shows the essential spirit of a person, not their desires. For romance and passion compatability look to venus and mars. Only looking at the sun will not show anything re romantic attractions. Also to look at the ascendants and how each person’s planets fit in each others houses. Someones ascendant degree or sun or moon conjunct another’s 5th house cusp or even the 7th house cusp could appear most romantically attractive. Ideally, there should be at least 3 indicators between each chart to spark a flame.
Sincere
Hi
I am with a gemini woman she has two young children with her ex partner who is a Sag male the same as me.
He was not nice to her at all when they was together.
He use to smash up her house and is an alcoholic, he would walk out every weekend and come back smashed the front door to get in.
She was on and off for a long time with him.
I have been with her since December 2019.
We hit it off straight away, however we have had a lot of difficulties due to her ex and my ex getting involved in our relationship.
My partner also does not like the fact my ex is still hanging around my family sometimes however she has been in there life for 9years and we also have two young children together.
I love my partner to bit and i really want us to work out.
She tells me she loves me and can be all over me and tell me how she feels about me.
Then the next comes across distant and cold and i feel like i constantly keep on asking if she’s okay and if she still loves me and feels the same etc.
I do not know how to take her I cant figure her out at all.
She has bad mood swings that let her down really or gets upset about things and hold it against me for a while.
There has not been much action in the bedroom as she says that first of all she needs to feel close to me and connected as she loves me to much to just have sex like she would of in the past with her ex.
I cant understand her sometimes I know I have had my ups and downs in the relationship and upset her a few times as well with somethings I have said and did not mean.
I think she is out to play mind games or to test me to see if i am going to stick around long enough so she can make her mind up if i am the one like she tells me i am.
She says once minuet i want to marry you and your the one for me but as times gone on and something have upset her she says its not the right time right now for us to get engaged and when i asked do you still want to marry me she says I do and I did before but right now its not right or we aren’t in the right position to god knows.
It does bother me that she will go back to her ex as she was always on and off with him before.
I am a Aries woman and have been messaging a gemini woman ,we are both gay ,her txt messages became less personal and now she has ghosted me
I’ feel hurt and empty
Hi Tracey,
It is quite difficult to describe Gemini. They are constantly on the move. Gemini painfully sit quietly in one place, they all day in continuous movement: somewhere call, talk to someone, somewhere in a hurry. They are constantly born new ideas, plans, plans. Thirst for activity is the normal state of Gemini. Without it, they are bored and can become depressed. They can jokingly do several things at once. In their activities, monotony and monotony are unacceptable.
Sincere
I’m a capricorn man and i dated a Gemini woman id say for days because she started acting strange right after she had agreed that we take things slow and see where it leads us. your article is spot on when you talk being anxious. When we first met i didn’t notice her until our mutual friends told me she was into me then i started to notice her and talked to her. We shared a lot in common and she opened up to me about her toxic past relationship and that she suffers from depression and i thought it was something i could handle because i have dealt with narcissistic partners before. Few days later she deleted my number from WhatsApp but still continued to talk to me, i didn’t ask her anything, we set up a date and met, ordered pizza and set in the car as it was during lockdown. (No sit ins were allowed) she laughed at my lame jokes and told me more about her fears for long term commitments and marriage..she was there yet and i was. We kissed and thought everything was great. Next day she we had chat in the morning, laughed and everything was cool. But on that very same day she had blocked me on everything..next morning she texted me ” sorry for how i behaved i don’t know why i did what i did, i guess i was overthinking” i gave a call asked her to tell me more about this behaviour and she said ” her sis told about a dream where her and i were getting engaged and panicked, she also thought were are not on a same wavelength in our lives. She assumed i leave a life she could not afford and i have everything” She continued and said “you didn’t anything wrong but keep putting pressure on myself whenever i think about you and i being together” i tried to oppose all of these statements but she had made up her mind, she wanted to be alone” i continued to call her to check up on her but she ended up blocking me again and unblocked me, talked, laughed and sometimes she acted aloof. It was a back and forth typo thing until i told her i like her, i she was smart and kindhearted and i have broken some of boundaries i hopes that she will atleast try and get to know me, but i can’t continue doing it as it doesnt make any difference on her part. This was 3 weeks ago and we haven’t spoken ever since. I’m trying to make peace with the fact that things moved too fast too soon, she will not come back as probably think I’m too much for her.
Hi dear,
As a Gemini woman,
If I am ignoring you it is because you did something to annoy me. If it’s romantic, and if she initially demonstrated interest, it is likely that you came off too strong. If she truly is interested in you, she will ignore you long enough so that you realize that you annoyed her. Then she will give you chance to redeem yourself. She will seek you out once she feels that you’ve accepted her ignorance of you. Once she treads back in, she will test you, to see if you make the same error as before, which is likely—since she likely did not make it explicit the first time. It’s a test of how genuine you are. If she feels the mistake is reparable, she will probably tell you—depending on her mercury this might be discrete or direct—what you did wrong, judge your explanation, and then from there she will either classify you as someone she might entertain, make you a friend, or move on entirely.
Sincere
All you need to do is just try to understand her closely not all Gemini girl are same.Mostly Geminis want changes so they can be entertained and tries to be happy all the time.But when they truly love someone they keep doing efforts to treasure that relation.And you need to have that special bonding with her, they’re thoughtful person too.This is how I feel coz I’m a Gemini too!