What to do when a Gemini woman ignores you?
Known as the Twins, Gemini is the friendliest sign among all in the zodiac. With the element of air, this is the third sign. Women having Gemini sign in the birth chart are sociable, adventurous, creative, outgoing, and eager for new experiences. She wants to live her life to the fullest and is never into routines.
Once a Gemini woman ignores you, it’s probably because you’ve done something bothering or hurting her. You may push her over the edge making this lady has no other option but to give you silent treatment.
Let’s find out some common reasons why she pays no attention to you.
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4 Reasons a Gemini Female Ignores You…
1. She is heartbroken
Despite being happy and enthusiastic most of the time, the Gemini female is emotional indeed. She doesn’t get hurt easily; however, she won’t hide it if you play with her feelings. This lady won’t hold back – very expressive, her emotional pains will be brought on the surface obviously.
Nevertheless, don’t be surprised if she stays silent to you. Gemini woman prefers to keep the issue to herself instead of solving it directly with you. Independent and full of positive thoughts, she will come up with solutions for the problem on her own.
Life still continues and nothing can stop her living her life to the fullest.
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2. She is a busy person
Due to Gemini personality traits, she is a hardworking, dedicate individual.
She won’t mind staying up for three consecutive nights to accomplish all works for her project. In case this woman ignores you, don’t quickly conclude anything. Perhaps she is just busy with all the tasks and has no intention to create this misunderstanding.
Tell her beforehand when you know she is busy dealing with many schedules, and she will try to spare her time for you. Don’t force her to meet you because Gemini doesn’t like to be controlled.
She is a supportive lover who will never forget the significant of her family, partner, and friends. Life is real and cruel, so please show your empathy to her as she already gave the same thing to you in the beginning.
Let’s see if you are the best match for Gemini woman!
3. She doesn’t have you in her heart
When a Gemini woman ignores you, maybe it’s because she has no interest in you in general. Though she is social on the outside, she is not the type that would open up her personal matters to everyone. When it comes to giving trust to someone, this gal is selective.
She will never tell you her problems if her heart feels nothing towards you.
As an emotional creature, the Gemini female falls in love hard and barely ignores anyone as frequent. Nonetheless, the moment she turns you down, it could be a sign she has no passion or emotion romantically for you.
If you don’t ask, then she will keep it to herself.
4. She doesn’t like an inquisitive guy
We all know Gemini-born natives are talkative. They love conversations having detailed and descriptive information because they can learn from those. If you want to impress this person, choose a topic reflecting some actual meaning to life.
The thing is that you shouldn’t be inquisitive about a specific subject that your Gemini woman doesn’t want to mention at all. If you feel her expressions change negatively, it’s a good idea to change the topic.
Don’t force her to talk because that issue may hurt her the moment she talks about it; otherwise, she will ignore you immediately. For this to be resolved, you need to be more calm and collected. Whether it’s a friendship or a relationship, she doesn’t want anyone to curious or focus much on her personal problems.
Give her time and she will reveal all by herself!
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A Gemini Woman Takes a Long Time to Respond
Now take a notice and see if the conversations between you and Gemini woman are in the slow pace. When she is ignoring you or pulling away, it takes her a long time to answer your questions or reply your text messages.
However, not all cases of her taking a long time to respond are because she ignores you. Don’t quickly jump to any conclusions!
Sometimes she may pay much focus on other things or have a conversation with someone else, and those could distract the Gemini female from responding to your talk at the same time. Or perhaps she has no idea about how to answer you because she is uncertain with her thoughts.
In other cases, she is just too shy or confused.
Overall, if your Gemini partner needs a long time to get back to the conversation with you, then the possibility is that she may be either concerned or annoyed with you.
Wrap up
What to do when a Gemini woman ignores you?
This lady is passionate, caring and willing to do anything to please her partner. In return, she expects you to pay attention to her emotions. She is obvious yet subtle at the same time – you can tell that she is annoyed with you by her facial expressions and attitudes, but she refuses to say it out.
You must be considerate about her to figure it out. If your Gemini woman ignores you, then please approach her in a kind and calm way. Don’t be too intense as she is an emotional person.
Give her time to be alone to reload everything; no need to worry because she will open up about what is on her mind when she’s ready. In case you hurt her, then she will let you explain yourself. During the conversation, please be attentive to what she said as it’s a rare opportunity to get the Gemini female to forgive you.
Have you been with a Gemini woman before?
Talk to me your experiences involved her in the comments below!
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Well I’m an Aries and there’s this Gemini girl I’ve been dating for a while.. sometimes she seems to be all over the place and d next time she’s like we r just normal friends.. I’ve talked to her about it severally but it appears she still does it at any presentable opportunity..to crown it all, she doesn’t feel remorseful at all en she feels she’s always right..why is she behaving so??…and any possible advice?
Hi dear,
Unfortunately the signs look to me like she is hesitating because she isn’t feeling an overwhelming attraction to you at the moment. This is not to say she doesn’t care for you. She obviously values your companionship in some form, but eventually you’re going to have to actually either give her the time she needs, or just be straight forward with her about how you feel. Sometimes when both people are hesitating, it will go on endlessly until someone steps up to the plate and either moves the relationship along, or at least brings forth the truth of what it is.
Sincere
Im a gemini woman, when i so this its because i dont feel a romantic connection but i still care about them or i just dont want to hurt that person’s feelings.
I offended my Gemini crush somedays ago.We planned on meeting as it’s been long… However,as she was about to meet,I texted her buh it took her long to reply.. However, before she replied,I had already insulted her.I later realized my mistake and I tried apologizing to her….I sent her series of texts and I called her severally buh she ignored all my calls and she hasn’t been picking my calls…
I sent a colleague to her and she promised to pick my call buh getting to call her,she ignored my call….
We met on campus the following day and she was walking towards me buh I walked away.After she finished for the day,she passed by and she saw me once again.Our eyes made four and it seemed she wanted to say something buh she kept moving…..Once of her friends looked back and she smiled/laughed at me…..
I miss my Gemini woman and I don’t know what to do anymore…..This came just days after she decided to accept my proposal.
Hi dear,
If I am ignoring you it is because you did something to annoy me. If it’s romantic, and if she initially demonstrated interest, it is likely that you came off too strong. If she truly is interested in you, she will ignore you long enough so that you realize that you annoyed her. Then she will give you chance to redeem yourself. She will seek you out once she feels that you’ve accepted her ignorance of you. Once she treads back in, she will test you, to see if you make the same error as before, which is likely—since she likely did not make it explicit the first time. It’s a test of how genuine you are. If she feels the mistake is reparable, she will probably tell you—depending on her mercury this might be discrete or direct—what you did wrong, judge your explanation, and then from there she will either classify you as someone she might entertain, make you a friend, or move on entirely.
Try talking to her a few times. If she continues to ignore you then it only means she is not interested. Geminis cant resist any opportunity to talk. Even small talks. They can also easily detach themself from situations of people that they don’t like, cant change or have totally given up on.
Sincere
I am a 62 year old Aries man and my girlfriend is a 59 year old Gemini woman, we both worked together until very recently. I got another job. She is a supervisor and has a very stressful position and is the only woman in the office. She gets overwhelmed with the negativity at work and until just last week I really didn’t understand the Gemini female that much. Anyway at times she shuts down and I seem to be the one that gets the short stick. I am the one she will shut out and there is no communication for usually a few days to a week. This last episode has lasted almost 3 weeks, I saw her maybe twice. She says she loves me and misses me but is taking a much needed break. She still has to go to work and deal with what seems to be the biggest problem but I am shut out. I have told her in a calm manner that I am here for her and want to help and that it hurts me to see her that way and I feel ignored, devalued and helpless. Do I just wait in misery for her to come back around or what? Thanks
Hi Dante,
I assume she wants just that, a break. Being in a relationship is tiring, and like you said, she gets overwhelmed with the negativity at work. She may start to miss the freedom she had before. In my experience, I just need time to do my own projects, instead of always talking to someone or spending time with them. If she’s committed to your relationship, she won’t be crazy for someone else, and if she does have someone, then she isn’t committed to you and isn’t worth your trouble.
Don’t let that relationship build up for nothing.
Relationships need 2 people to make it through, remember that.
Sincere
Hi, we have a long online relation but we never meet and i feel always ignored when i ask her to meet and video call and a pictures. when i try to do some romantic very rare time she will be but mostly she refused and i told everything straight about my feelings but always she didnt reply me her clear thought. if i ask her let me know clearly if you dont like me i will leave still she said leave it as it is. most of the time i feel hurt her behaviour and i feel ignored too but still confused about her refusing to meet because i think a long distance relationship may b she created my wrong picture on her mind i tried many time to make her clear but still not i feel any positive response what to do…
Hi Umer,
There’s a good chance that she may not be interested or if you’re dating, she might be losing interest. If she keeps ignoring you, the best thing for your sake is to let her go and find someone who will love and acknowledge you. If you keep trying to get her attention, you’re setting yourself up for a heartbreak and it’s a good possibility that she’ll be creeped out as well which can also hurt your reputation if she puts it out there.
Sincere
J told my gemini woman to leave if she was going to keep drinking because its become a problem as she has also been depressed she didnt even try to talk things out with me at all just left im trying to give her space but im hurting for making her choose drinking over me. Im a virgo man that loves my gemini i just want her to come back she responds only to small talk like how are u doing thats it wont talk about the issue .
Hi K,
If she lets you hold her hand, do that. If you can just sit next to her quietly, it may be the best thing you can do. Offer to have her lay her head down in your lap on the couch and don’t say a word. She’s depressed. You can’t know what that’s like. What you do is far more important than what you say. Fix her something (comfort food) she likes to eat. Don’t worry about conversation. Just be there for her. I hope she takes her meds. I hope you are making sure she goes to therapy.
Talk to her in a different way. You don’t need her to listen and respond to you because she is under severe emotional stress and like most, if not all, depressed people, she doesn’t want to talk.
Give her flowers and express your love and support for her on a note. Give her the assurance that you understand and will support her (but make sure you really do understand and are willing to support her unconditionally). Give her the small stuffs that she likes and always send her notes of endearment and encouragement. It can be just a chocolate, a stem of rose. It’s not the cost of what you give but the thought that you are there for her that will matter to her.
You have to be careful as well with your choice of words. Use positive words, except, “snap out of it”, “you can do it”, “it will pass”, things like that because depressed people hate those advices.
Do you know what’s causing her depression? Try to understand.
Sincere