Wonder how to make a Gemini man think about you?
The Gemini male rarely complains anything because he is the easygoing, cheerful type and in a good mood most of the time.
Being in a relationship with him is very good – this guy will fulfill anything you want without getting annoyed. If you like uniqueness, then he will plan surprises. Since he values his freedom a lot, there’s no possibility of him trying to control you.
Whatever your goal and hobby are, he will be so supportive and encouraging.
Therefore, many believe that Gemini man is really an ideal partner.
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Tips to Make a Gemini Male Think More about You…
Does he really make a perfect lover in a relationship?
Due to his personality traits, a Gemini man loses his interest quickly. It’s hard for him to stick with a certain person for a long time because his attention for someone or something remains in an incredibly short period.
There are many questions related to his faithfulness; hence, you may be frustrated and have no idea how to make him think about you.
If you have this kind of thought quite often, then consider it a sign that your relationship with Gemini guy is having issues. Nevertheless, maybe he is just being himself in another situation. Your Gemini partner is never clingy in love – he will be happy if you’re around him, but he will soon look for anything keeping him entertaining when you’re not by his side.
With a flexible and easygoing nature, he barely shows affections to his lover.
In case you are the person expecting to be showered with love and care, dating a Gemini man will frequently cause you confused and frustrated. See also tips to handle when this guy pulls away in love!
The best tip to gain his attention and get him to think about you is to keep your life interesting:
1. Making changes frequently
Remember that changing things up regularly is significant if you are in a romantic relationship with a Gemini male. Since he gets bored easily, you should change your appearance, or change your hobby or any possible thing to keep him interested.
He loves variety. Therefore, don’t hesitate to make constant changes, and he can’t help but keep thinking about what you come up with in the next day. Make him curious all the time and you already win his heart. Avoid doing routine when you’re together; otherwise, he will soon look for someone else more interesting.
2. Widening your knowledge
Reading is a good way to widen your knowledge.
Aside from changing yourself, you should impress your Gemini lover by showing how intellectual you are. He is a smart person and loves to talk about everything, so you must comprehend a variety of topics to hold an exciting conversation with him.
Try to read more and you’ll have the confidence to talk to him.
If you’re able to impress him through the chat, he’ll surely anticipate and have an urge to learn more about you. Charm him with your knowledge, and all he wishes when you’re away is to have the next meeting with you to continue the conversation.
3. Focusing on your own life
Don’t be clingy when you’re with Gemini man; instead, give both of you private time and spend it separately.
It’s not wise if you invest all of your valuable time with your boyfriend. We know you love him and want to dedicate as much time as possible together. However, since the person you are with is a Gemini, sticking by his side constantly will make him tired of you (A).
You should give more time to your personal buddies and social relationships. Have a fun time on your own and you will have more interesting things to tell him. As he is a social butterfly, he would love to see his partner hanging out with a lot of cool people apart from him.
4. Being considerate
This Gemini man impresses people around him with his light hearted and fun personality. He indeed has a great sense of humor and is very good at playing with words. Don’t be surprised if you find him use puns whenever having chances – he is in fact an expert of puns.
Show your amusement and interest when hearing his puns and don’t be afraid to bring up your own jokes. You interesting like that will make him miss you. Also he can’t stop thinking about your jokes and puns when you aren’t around.
Be considerate to him and he can’t wait to share his new jokes with you the next time.
5. Setting up boundaries
Of course you can’t be fun and interesting all the time.
If you are not a natural entertainer or are unable to keep his interest, it may be hard to get a Gemini guy to miss you. Due to this, the most effective tip in this situation is to set boundaries with him.
This man actually does not have the natural boundaries of his own. Very flexible and adaptable, he just follows the flow at the moment. Therefore, the person setting the pace in the relationship with a Gemini is none but you.
He wants nothing but being busy; thus, he often looks for things to attend to whenever possible. Setting up boundaries will make him remain at home more and wander less because most of the dating plans are prepared by you.
The Bottom Line
So, the key on how to make a Gemini think about you is to keep yourself fun and interesting when hanging out with him.
Will ignoring him or making him jealous get him to miss you?
Unfortunately, the answer is no!
When you ignore him, he will search for other things to do or other people to talk with. It’s not a big deal if you don’t give him your attention because he will find it in somebody else. Moreover, keep in mind that Gemini man doesn’t get jealous easily; actually, it’s him will make you jealous in return.
Hey. I’m a Sagittarius girl. And I’ve been talking to my school crush very recently. He’s a Gemini guy. I told him I had a crush on him and started talking since then. There was this instant connection I felt with him. And I can say the same happened with him he started opening up to me, shared details about his life. Whenever we talk I can sense that he is totally interested talking and his replies are pretty quick too. And there have been few instances where we have flirted a bit. But then he rarely initiates the conversation. In the beginning he used to start up conversations with me, he used to send links and initiate conversation. But lately I understand that he’s busy but he hasn’t initiated conversation at all. It’s always me and then he talks normally like he’s interested.
I don’t understand him sometimes. And whenever I want to start up conversation I have think several times but once we’ve started talking it feels good and connected with him. He’s very sweet lately too he sends more happy emoticons which I think is cute.
Can you please advice me what I should do next. Should I tell him that I like him? Is that a good idea?
Hi Juliana,
How you can know that a Gemini likes you…
See one important thing is the way Gemini shows their affection is totally different from other stars I would say. If a Gemini asks you an opinion about the things(perhaps for almost all things) they are going to do that means they respects you. A Gemini is not a sacrificial type and dont make them do that for any of your needs. Give them the space they want and inspire them to take that additional step of life. That makes a Gemini care and love for you more than anything. Affection will only slowly from Gemini but that doesn’t means that they are not loving you. Give their time and space, they will eventually love back the person who did so. People in Gemini are really hard to get motivated even when they are still capable of doing very hard tasks. They will be really happy when they travel ..I would say a journey can change all impressions on a Gemini person upside down.. Try that option. It will surely workout. Travel kind of bring the real loving soul in Gemini out. And last but not the least, Gemini loves to be gifted and appreciated and if someones does that quite often to a Gemini its almost sure that that someone will win the Gemini’s heart.
Thank you for asking me to answer and I hope my answer helps you.
I am dating a gemini guy from the last two years. Everything was so good..we felt love for each other…and after 10 months of relationship he cheated on me and after so many call and so many sorry messages ..I forgave him..and again we became happy..but that incident completely broken me…and I became very uncomfortable when he used to meet any girls.. actually I know he doesn’t do anything wrong now..still I feel insecure…and I started to stop him for making any female best friends..but he denied ..he did what he always wants and then we started fighting a lot…I felt he wasn’t giving me his time..he is busy in his group…then I asked him for time..he told me he needs some personal space and I thought he is losing interest in me..so I planned to made him feel insecure and I was doing that only…and he got too frustrated and m saying sorry to him from the last 3 months..still the things are not like before.. sometimes he replies very rudely.. sometimes in a good way..and sometimes he block me..and unblock me..and when I ask about the future like plz forgive me..we are better together..he just say let’s see in future after this lockdown..he wants to observe my behaviour I think so…that gives me hope..but sometimes he said that he doesn’t want to continue this… actually we are in long distance relationship..plz help me to win his heart once again
Hi Mansi,
I would say as long as your beautiful, loyal, adeventurous and drama free, your good to go in a Gemini’s eye. Oh and keep in mind, they are witty, so they are also attracted to the intelligence of a woman. So hopefully, you know how to hold a convo.. People of status tend to turn them on as well..Please avoid arguments, Gemini’s can’t stand it lol, they’ll avoid you or cut you off if your very arguementive. They have their moments but overall, they can’t stand it..
Though they can be funny and silly, they do have a diplomatic approach when conversing , so because of this, arguements can be a huge turn off for them.. (I am aware they’re known for being 2 face, Lol)
They have really nice taste in selecting their mate, and intuitively they tend to pick people that will do right by their side due to the fact Gem men rarely cheat once they are in a relationship, so in return the universe gives blessings with the proper mate in return..
Not sure if you ever notice but most celebrity male Gemini tend to be in long lasting relationships, they rarely have any insecurities on the surface but deep inside they can be fearful, not in a relationship but with themselves and it’s extremely hard to see because of their charisma..
So be simple,beautiful and keep them on their toes…
Hope this was helpful