What is the dark side of Gemini that you need to know?
Before learning about Gemini dark side, you need to understand the characteristic and nature of this zodiac sign. Some claim Gemini as the best sign compared to others while some feel they are the most moody creature ever.
Well, Gemini is infamous for their dual personalities – it’s not surprising as they are a sign of duality and their symbol is the twins.
When talking to a Gemini native, it’s like you are having a conversation with two persons at the same time. There are always two opposite poles coexisting inside them – angry and joyful, rude and kind, ignorant and wise.
Because of their contradiction, not many can understand the Gemini.
Top 5 Negative Traits of a Gemini Zodiac Sign
#1: Anti-social behavior
One of Gemini’s dark sides that most people will never figure out is their anti-social behavior. Seems unexpected, right?
Those born under this zodiac sign are usually described as the funny, witty, and sociable type that barely wastes time for jealousy or sadness. However, they are also introverted individuals, indeed. Because of the duality, their moods change constantly; that’s why you may find them friendly at one moment but soon give you a cold shoulder in seconds later.
As they are always positive and energetic, there are occasions Gemini really needs to back off the outside world and takes a break. Don’t force them to talk to you when they’re quiet – that’s the period for their self-reflection.
#2: More negative than ever
Aside from scolding themselves and spending time on self-reflection, the Gemini can’t help but blaming on the world as well. That’s how the duality works!
If somebody is the source causing a Gemini’s spectrum, they won’t hesitate to put all the extremes on to that person. This is one of the reasons they’re commented as dramatic or super moody.
When you are self-reflecting on the world, the result can be either very positive or terribly negative. It depends on the way you think and accept your own situations. The thing is: Gemini tends to display their reclusive behavior when feeling heavy and intense.
Once being eaten up with negativity, those natives will become irrational, stubborn, and irrational. They will isolate themselves completely from people around, and you’ll have a hard time contacting or getting in touch with them.
#3: Making conversations in negative forms
Gemini is best known as the communicator of the zodiac; even the most anti-social ones are good at communicating. Being friends with this person means you will gain sincere advice or at least listen to interesting stories.
Nevertheless, their communication can come in dark forms, like they could trick you with sly lies or indecisive picks. Don’t question the ability of a Gemini as they’re able to do both under the effect of duality.
Ruled by Mercury, the planet having the association with communication and message; yet, on the dark side, this gift makes the Gemini a sly talker prone to opportunism, lying, and even thieving. By that, they can get what they want or rescue themselves out of a tough situation with ease.
Generally, this negative quality allows them to do anything beneficial to themselves only.
As long as they feel satisfied, they don’t really care about their dirty behavior or attitude towards others. This thought of Gemini will surely leave people around them feeling confused and used, hurt, and messed around.
#4: Hiding their true selves from you
Because of their curiosity, Gemini hardly falls deep into something particular. They are more excited to exploring the surface of a matter or even a romantic relationship. Rather than wasting time digging into certain things, they prefer learn more new stuff here and there.
But the dark side here is that no one can tell much about a Gemini unless they give the permission. You think you know all about them; however, it’s just the mask they put on to form as well as strengthen the connection with you.
What they tell may not be the truth!
With a large amount of knowledge, they can make friends with even their enemies through forming mutual interest. Don’t cause any mistreatment to them or they will hold onto their hatred of you forever.
As mentioned earlier, the Gemini is introverted sometimes so getting them open up completely is difficult.
#5: Lacking emotions in love
When it comes to love relationships, Gemini individuals have a hard time dealing with emotions of themselves and their partner. They hate the feeling of being tied down or forced to do what they don’t want to. No wonder it’s hard to make a Gemini think about you in an affair.
To a Gemini, romance and love are where they can freely express their thought, expression, and feeling. Don’t ask them to shower you with passion and affection; instead, let them flirt with you in their own favorite way.
The male Gemini is happiest if he can be in an open relationship – this guy just doesn’t want to commit or settle down to a certain someone too soon. Never mistake this as he doesn’t love you; actually, he simply yearns for his freedom.
Once a Gemini is in love, they are intense and always try their best to make their loved one comfortable as well as happy. The moment you find them moody and distant, loosen a bit and give them space as that’s a sign they are in need of their private time.
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In a toxic relationship, your Gemini partner can be cold, angry, abusive (both physically and mentally), and immature. They are basically a big baby!
The dark side of Gemini will never disappear as it needs to coexist along with their bright side to balance the duality of this zodiac sign.
Fortunately, they can learn to change their behavior and attitude towards people around as a way to clear all the misunderstandings. Rather than fulfilling the curiosity of their own selves, they are advised to enhance the connection and relationship with everyone within their circle.
Also learn to be more open with their own emotions and others’ as well.
the big baby thing ouch but the rest is true . me being a Gemini
I have been with a Gemini for over 30 years and have experienced everything in this article for our entire relationship, I am divorcing him . It was an exhausting 3 decades and I’m not willing to give the rest of my life up for the huge amount of energy it takes to stay together. I actually can’t wait to be free . I feel he would be much better off living single and having casual relationship s .
I’m a Leo who married a gemini in in October. I am currently think of divorce. Dr. Jekyll/Mr.Hyde I don’t know if I will ever emotionally recover. Best wishes to you.
really ? I have been in a relationship with a Gemini for a year and thought it was just me causing the problems we have.. I guess because he makes me think that it’s all my fault, I believe it
I m a leo married to gemini 15 years, I m too existed, I can’t wait to come out of this marriage, he makes me feel nothing and guilty of our fight all the time
This is SO me. I am a Gemini, and I have all of these!
This is soo hundred percent accurate